I have fallen in love and there were people who felt sth for me too but in both cases things didn't go anywhere. I'm so tired of waiting...
2006-11-26 11:19:27 · 9 answers · asked by maggie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks Gary. It's good to discover people still optimistic about life.
2006-11-26 11:28:30 · update #1
just enjoy the search. why r u rushing to get 2 the destination when the journey is the best bit & when u do find "the one" it will be so worth it. i,ve not found the one yet either but im in no rush. just relax & when the moment is right it will all happen. dont get disillusioned & never think u wont find them. it will happen (& soon)
2006-11-26 11:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a valuable person. "Do not wear your heart on your sleeve for daws to peck at." (said by playwright Tennessee Williams). Increase your self-esteem. Contemplate your good qualities. Believe in who you really are. No need to advertise. When the chemistry is there it cannot be destroyed. If it is not there, nothing can create it. You will find someone. Someone will find you. In the meantime, how you treat YOU is the most important thing in the world, and I wouldn't waste a moment making sure it is the best and finest way you can think of.
2006-11-26 19:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting to have a realtionship can be tiring and disappointing.
Do something fun and meaningful. Find wonder in each day with yourself and with friends. Waiting to live life until you have another person in it can rob you of your pleasure now.
If you can be content and have fun and find meaning in your life, healthy people will be attracted to you. If you postpone your happiness expecting someone else to make you happy, you have a LONG wait.
2006-11-26 19:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try a arranged marriage like in India or you could keep on waiting and waiting. Why don't you go out with your girl friends and have fun
2006-11-26 19:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there don't give up, i am sure that there is someone out there for you, maybe you are really trying to hard, just chill for awhile and just get out there and have a good time, enjoy life, and stop looking, and one day before you even realise, that special someone will be there...........good luck and god bless.
2006-11-27 03:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by donua1022 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Gary. To much information for me but, Totally agree.
2006-11-26 20:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by whatsinaname58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont keep looking for perfection....
...I dont mean you have to "settle"....
but keep in the game, dont stay single, get into relationships with guys that seem pretty suitable, and see where it takes you....
the one may be found where you least expect....
but they wont necessarily find you, you must keep looking, and take the chances that come to develop a relationship.
good luck!
2006-11-26 19:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Still Waters 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will find the right one when he comes along. Just have patience.
2006-11-26 19:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, the minute you stop lookin someone will come along.
2006-11-26 19:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by sjjbluemoose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋