I don't mine being a FOOL.. !Im sick and tired of waiting 4 Mr. Right to come along that idiot is not coming any time soon.. I guess i will have to go and Find him .. Yet Am afraid to waste my emotions on the wrong person.. Being 30 plus is not all that young What do u people think??
2006-11-26 11:19:22 · 23 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Are you looking in the right places. If I was Mr Right, I wouldn't be hanging out in bars, I wouldn't be dating every other girl I talked to. I'd probably be thinking somewhat like you are, Where's Mrs. Right. I'm probably not that outgoing, but I'm very polite. I'm probably not real popular, but I'm a really good guy. I'm probably not aggressive with women, but my smile gives me away when I like someone. The problem is that the really nice girls[sorry] women are waiting and the really nice guys are waiting and so they both get stuck with aggressive, pushy jerks. My best advice is to be really outgoing and shine like the sun is in your pocket! And have ultimate respect for yourself, because guys are brainwashed to respect you only as far as you respect yourself. Of course it couldn't hurt to volunteer at the church or some local community outlet, I guess if I was Mr. Right that's where I might be. Good Luck!
2006-11-26 12:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know they have this phrase: "There's somebody out there for everyone" its in the matter of if YOU believe that. God doesn't not mean for you to be alone, now maybe but not forever. Maybe its not time for a man to come into your life. Would you rather have God put a variety of the wrong men or man in your life or just be patient and wait on him to put the right person in your life. We as woman are very emotional beings and we need and want love and attention and there is nothing wrong with that, but ask yourself even though you may want this do you want it from someone they is sincere or someone that has ulterior motives? Love isn't for fools? Love is hopeless romantics like yourself. I have been hurt soooo many times and I STILL believe there is someone out there for me and I know there is someone out there for you. Don't look, don't stress and don't ponder because God has a plan and Mr. Right on his way. Question is are you willing to wait? Good luck!
2006-11-26 11:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nellybean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fools don't fall in love, they fall in infatuation. Love grows from spending time together, building a real relationship. It doesn't show up on a timetable and sometimes it is the right person, but the wrong time.... Age is truly only a mental state. The only limitation of age and love is childbearing. You can fall in love at any age and it be as satisfying and fulfilling at 40, 50 and over.
Don't worry about Finding HIM.... live your life in a way that makes you happy, and things will fall into place.
2006-11-26 11:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this is going to sound kinda cynical coming from someone my age, but:
I think that true, can't eat, can't sleep, over the fence, world series, kinda love is nothing more than an invention by the greeting card industry. Like a lie to keep little girls polite and in line. I think, that no matter what your age, trying to find true love is a waste of energy. Just find someone who you respect, and who makes you happy. The rest will fall into place. Love can be built off of a respecting, careing, happy relationship. You just need patience and not expect too much right away.
Good Luck
2006-11-26 11:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no person is a fool who falls in love. The question to ask is do you like this guy or woman first and do you think approximately this guy or woman to be your ultimate chum in the worldwide. somebody you could believe with something, every time and by no ability be afraid. this is the real attempt of love. Is to first like the guy after which you improve to love them extra and build on that believe. those are the development blocks for a sturdy stable dating.
2016-10-17 14:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"....Fools rush in where angels fear to tread !"... that´s a love motto. Ain´t no other way; if there was, it wouldn´t be LOVE. Mr. Right, just like any other job, must be sought out. You have to go out and give, before you receive, especially in the 21st century. So set your mind, and find him. Good luck !
2006-11-26 11:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by rodolfito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, only fools fall in love. Mr. Right is a typical man, won't ask for directions, that's what's taking him so long.
When he shows up, ask if he's got an older brother.
2006-11-26 11:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in love once, I think, and I do not recommend it. It was painful. Or it could have been the wrong woman, I don't know. I am always available if you care to stroll along Chicago's lakeshore drive. Drop me a line.
2006-11-26 11:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ure over 30...stop acting like a child...u DONT need a mr.right in ur life...its not worth gettin married...i dont get u people...dont u enjoy solitude?love doesnt last for ever anyway...its only until u have a baby...n then it becomes companionate love n ure stuck with a man u dont love and a human that is ur responsibiity...is this really how u want to spend ur life?ure alive only once...
2006-11-26 20:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Spiderpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's true but I like this feeling. Even fool but happy.
2006-11-27 02:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋