i'm gonna run outta space..i was with this girl for 3 years..when i met her she had 3 kids..we now have one together..we talked about getting married before the baby came and got engaged shortly thereafter..about 1 month before we were supposed to get married we had some stupid argument..i don't even remember about what..but she "broke up" with me. and within a few hours had her tounge down my coworker/best friends throat. this has been going on since july..she's off again on again with whether she wants to marry me and says she loves me quite often. i still love her i want to be with her...i've raised her kids as my own for the past 3 years. last night she went out with a girlfriend who just got back in town..i stayed home with the kids so she could go out with her friend (this happens every now and then)..she ended up staying at this guys house last night..but me being all trusting thought nothing happened..i went over there to pick her up..had to pee..2 condom wrappers in the trash
2006-11-26 11:11:12 · 11 answers · asked by Ed O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand you have a connection with her kids, but sorry guy your wasting your time. She keeps coming back to you even though she walks all over you...she knows you will be there and relies on you to be there. You need to put your foot down and tell her you are not her doormat_
2006-11-26 11:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A paternity test may not be a bad idea. No offense, but it sounds like she likes to sleep around, and that she isn't ready to settle down with you.
Time to go, hon. She doesn't want you, but she's trying not to hurt you without realizing that what she's doing is hurting you worse than her just walking away.
If you blow her off, she'll either crawl after you, or feel relieved. If it's the latter, at least you can still have a friendly relationship for your child.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-26 19:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her call the White House - just to be on the safe side. That's where The Decider lives.
2006-11-26 19:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Beejee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir, you have gotten played and are being used. Take your child, and go make a happy life/family on your own.
2006-11-26 19:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used dude...end the relationship (the romantic part at least) and y'all agree (or let the court decide) on how to handle custody of your child together...
You may dig her...and she may dig you...but she doesn't dig JUST you and that's why things won't workout for y'all...
Think of the child...the children should be her top priority...and y'alls child should be yours...
2006-11-26 19:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she isn't ready to settle down with anyone, but is keeping you for a free sitter.
2006-11-26 19:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to go through life sharing her with the world, DUMP HER.
2006-11-26 19:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously isnt into you anymore. tell her that u still want to be in her/your kids lives but you need to move on.
2006-11-26 19:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by tannabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is no good !! dump her. she should be happy of having you wiling to be commited and nice to her child. she is not worthed ! she just want to fool around
2006-11-26 19:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cannot commit. Time to move on......
2006-11-26 19:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋