2006-11-26 10:58:58 · 12 answers · asked by honey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you are not sending the right signals to the girls. Either they have this maternal instinct towards you or a fraternal feeling towards you or they are not comfortable with you being their boyfriend. Do you give a lot of advice to people? Are you fastidious? Picky, finicky? Do you help people a lot? Girls like someone who are good looking, intellectual, funny, and supportive and have a spending hand. Mostly a combination of atleast 3 of these characteristics would do for most girls. You might want to explore your stock in these. Also, you might want to express your adoration for girls that you like in the right way. Remembering small things like tastes of girls, their birthdays, and buying small gifts for them, taking them out, pampering them, would do miracles for you. But don't overdo it and go out with as many girls as you can. Then, you will be branded as a flirt and even your friends might move slightly away from you.
2006-11-26 11:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had this conversatin with a guy this mornin'. He's into me, and i'm not so much into him. So i'm going to tell you what I wish I could tell him. You need an edge. I don't know how old you are, but in my age group especially, girls like a guy that can make funny and quick remarks, can talk about important things, but still not come off as boring or cocky. Be flirty, but not in the "I like you" way. Just always make little funny remarks, and give her special attention, but not over the top. Unless you really think that she'll respond positively, don't tell her you like her. It'll just make her feel really awkward to hang out with you.
2006-11-26 11:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by drycountrygirl44@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to make that next step of asking them out or letting them know that you are interested.
I have many guy friends that are just that "friends" because they have shown no other interest accept to be friends. There was one who had begun to show me that he was interested in being more than just a friend but I liked our relationship just as it was "friends".
I say that only to say that if these girls only like you as a "friend" that is OK, just look for a girl outside of your circle of friends.
Best of Luck !
P.S. You all ready know how to communicate with the girls so take the next STEP.
2006-11-26 11:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaar......girl-friend is a UPGRADE version of friend who is a girl/girl as friend.
Wait for some time, you wud get more than 3 @ a time. But keep ur consentration upon studies.
These things romance love Shuve are the alternative ways of spending time.
I am not saying that its a wastage of time. I know theres no life without love, but first of all ur studies are more important than You will girl friend afer some time.
Just Wait....u will soon have
dats my promise
2006-11-26 11:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by 56465456878990909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What question you have asked you have Friends choose one out of them and you will be having a good girl friend.
2006-11-26 11:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Hind K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta bring yourself out of that I'm-a-really-good-guy-friend mode. Girls will see you as a friend only if you show that's what you are. Be flirty & stop trying to impress them so much. They may see that as you being funny & friendly. That's not what you want them to see you as. Be flirty & smile..just let loose. You will realize that not trying to impress them so much & just being yourself will win a girl over. =)
2006-11-26 11:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its something with your behaviour which instantly puts them into the "Friends-Only Mode". Try being more independent and funny around. Stop caring about what others think of you, just bust on women more and don't try to BUY their attention...
2006-11-26 11:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by ash3_phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not neccessary that all must have a girl friend for sure. if u go back a girl it will never sustain, but if a girl comes to you u will lead a happy life buddy.... this is the fact.
2006-11-26 17:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Creative zest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be cause you r a flirt, not serious bout any relationship yet, dont show much consern towards girls emotional self.
girls seek substance in their man, so better give them that
2006-11-26 19:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Pranks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to look for a girl friend, and not just friends, ask one of your friends out and see how it goes.
2006-11-26 11:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋