last week my boyfriend came from australia on visitor visa. now he wants to get greencard so that he can get some good job and work legally. his uncle suggested him to get marry with someone who has citizenship on contract basis and after 6 months he will get his greencard and they will get divorced. he asked me if i still wants to marry him. i dont know wht sould i say. should i take it lightly or should i breakup with plz give me some suggestions.
2006-11-26 10:46:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey guys i think u misunderstood me.
he is not marrying with me. he is marrying with someone else to get greencard and thn he is gonna divorce her. and thn he wants me to marry him. plz give me some suggestions
2006-11-26 11:04:46 · update #1
His uncle is suggesting you involve yourself in fraud? Nice family. I wonder what else they'll want you to do when you're legally responsible for him?
2006-11-26 10:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All he needs to do is aplly for a passport then that way he can keep it current. Then while here aplly to become a citizen. What if you get married to him and in 6 months he gets a divorce what then. You know what married people do right? Then when he gets a divorce what makes him not look for someone else. You need to realize that if he really love you and wanted to be with you he owuld have asked to marry you, not wait till his uncle tell him he needs to be married. If he really loves you he can apply for a passport then apply for citizenship and make it legal. But taking the shortcut well I leave it at that. SO good luck and hope everything works for you
2006-11-26 18:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since your writing us for a answer, I say your not ready. Your scared, and I don't blame you. I don't think this is how you exactly thought getting married would go for you. Getting married is a very important issue, and not to be taken so lightly. You do what your "gut" feeling tells you to do. It's about 99.9 true if you follow the feeling. You weren't put on this earth to be doing people big favors like that, your here to love and most of all, take good care of yourself..If he needs to find someone to marry, he will, he won't have to live with them, but he may have to pay them..
2006-11-26 18:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH SAME THING HAPPENED TO MY MOMZ!!!! This African dude wanted to come to the U.S. but he wanted to marry her so he can be legal.. Sadly enough, she turned him down. My advice: Don't marry him, UNLESS you DO really LOVE him. I think he's just usin' you to get in the U.S. But I don't think you should go through with his wishes unless you feel like you WANT to and not NEED to. I would take it lightly.. but eventually breakup if that's what he's after.. Its not for sure that when he marries you that he'll stick with you. Hope this helps. If not, at least I tried. Good luck, girl.
2006-11-26 18:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by babykai_30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him!!! It sounds like he's using you!!! You dont want a guy who's gonna use you, do you??? The whole time while you're married, you'll be miserable about how he's only marrying you to become a citizen here in the US.
2006-11-26 18:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a serious thing whether its for a green card or not. Are they sure its for only 6 months? Anyway, don't wait around for him if he marries someone else.
2006-11-26 19:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems a bit fishy, maybe he was telling you what his uncle said just to see what you would say.
I would find out exactly what he's talking about & exactly what his intentions are toward you before commiting your self to marrage.
Good Luck.
2006-11-26 18:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do it if I didn't love him you are just being used so he can gain status in this country next thing you know her will waqnt you to have a baby with him so he will be sure he can stay in the country
2006-11-26 18:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl 26 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems 2 me he just wants his greencard, but you'll have 2 decide on ur own. good luck
2006-11-26 18:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is illegal in this country. Call Immigration and Naturalization and get the facts straight. Protect your rights.
2006-11-26 18:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋