i'm jealous of my friends.
they all have had many boyfriends or guys that have asked them out and i haven't. They are all so pretty and have so many other friends. i dont get why people dont ask me out and why they have more friends and they get everything! i hate this,how do i deal?
2006-11-26 10:29:57 · 26 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe they sense your insecurity. You need to be more confident and that makes any one seem interesting enough to be approached. Or maybe your unapproachable and you intimidate others. Try to be easy going and smile more often. You dont have to wait for someone to approach you, why dont you strut your confindence and be the first one to say hi! Good luck!
2006-11-26 10:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bambi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think it's cool to have had 19 boyfriends in your life? It's not, trust me. Having a bunch of boyfriends in someone's life just means that they can't KEEP a boyfriend..but can still get one. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend 'cuz they're not all that. Being in a relationship is a lot of work and obviously, that's why your friends could never make it work. You will be the smarter person to just do your best in school and the right guy will come your way. As for them having more friends, school is just one big popularity contest. They may only get friends & guys because they are popular & their other friends want to get popular by being their friend. Who cares if they're pretty? Personality matters way more & when it comes down to it, someone may be the prettiest person on the outside, but on the inside they may be ugly. & being pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside pretty much makes you ugly all the way 'cuz your attitude ruins it. Guys may not ask you out 'cuz they're intimidated of you. Open up & talk to more people. Guys don't like insecurity & it's plain that you have insecurity issues. Stop trying to be so much like your friends. You may not realize you are but being jealous brings out the worst in people. Let loose & love yourself just the way you are. Guys will respect that.
2006-11-26 19:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find your "thing" ! What is it about you that makes you different? Find out what it is and play it up! If you have a big booty...buy some bootylicios jeans and walk with a little pep in your step. Force people to notice whats unique about you. Also, talk more. Tell jokes. Be the life of the party. No one can resist a fun person...
2006-11-26 18:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by SheSoFly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I guess you have a little bit of jealousy...
It's not easy to see eveybody being picked and we are "left behind". I wouldn't worry so much about that. I bet you're still young and attractive, so I would just stick around and one day good things will happen to you. Don't isolate from your friends with their boyfriends. They probably miss your company and want to see your happy as well. Be positive and always nice to people. You will definitely attract positive people as well. :-)
2006-11-26 19:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, boyfriends are soo much drama and stress..it'll come later but for now just have fun with youre friends, b/c soon you'll be too tied up in a relationship to hang with them as much and so the stuff you can do now..not saying that it's a bad thing to be in a serious relationship but things change like you can't go to the club that much and stuff like that..good luck
2006-11-26 18:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Gu3rA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is also going through the same prob. she even wrote a Q. about it she just dealt with it in a way that i don't have to rush i am still young and have plenty of time for my love life when i am ready. just because everyone else has a boyfriend doesn't mean i have to have one
2006-11-26 18:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you just need to stop looking at what they have and you dont. Appreciate what you have and once you start being grateful for what you have and appreciate them then you will stop being jealous. Jealousy is a strong feeling to have and very harmful be carefull. Enjoy your ffriends. You will see that you will be happy with yourself and you will love yourself. That brings security to you and thats what will atract people. Sweetie even those who have much will envy you because they will see you secure.
2006-11-26 18:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by ahuga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to learn to be happy with what you do have, jealous dont help either. When you quit bing jealous and becom content things will get better
2006-11-26 18:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by kelly r 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to calm down. jealousy is normal but you have to know where to draw the line. maybe you need to ask guys out. there is nothing wrong with going after what you want. and have to think of yourself as being pretty too. a guy doesnt want to talk to someone who is insecure and not confident in herself
2006-11-26 18:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
cause there all to scared maybe that you'll say no or there shy but trust me you'll get asked out wuts beta to have the perfect boyfriend along with the perfect kiss =)
jessi if you need any other advice in life email me lil_hotti_angel@yahoo.com
2006-11-26 21:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by jessica k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋