I'm nice to my girl friend but she is bitchy.?

Question

Should I lower my self to her standards and ***** back or just try to be cool?

Answer 1

My advice/answer is to be cool and try to find out what might be bothering her. The best way to resolve sticky situations is to open up lines of communication. That's very important to any relationship. It sounds like she has some deep-seated issues(baggage) that need to be resolved, before things can progress.

Answer 2

Is she taking birth control pills? That could be the reason why she is so bitchy. I can't take most kinds of bc pills, it makes me like a Jekyll and Hyde, crazy, very irritable. Otherwise, I guess it's just her personality. You have to accept her for who she is or don't, but you can't change someone. She might not be the right match for you. However, better to find that out earlier rather than later when there are child support payments to make.

Answer 3

I would say that you probably should find out why she is so bitchy. Dont lower yourself to act the same.

Answer 4

I'd say maintain your standards. If she doesn't improve hers, then you should move on. There's no need to put up with that from someone every day of the week.

Answer 5

not all girls are like that maybe you need to higher your standards and ditch the *****.

Answer 6

I dont know how you can stand that. Maybe it's only when she's on her period but if it's all the time that would suck

Answer 7

let it roll off you like water off a ducks back man , chill out !

Answer 8

Find a g/f who is nicer..
You probably can't change her..
Don't waste you time trying..

Answer 9

you should hold off on the language dude someone just might report you : )

Answer 10

if you really love her just give her what she wants and maby she will be quiet. honestly as long as your with her as long as she is happy you will be happy.