I'm a girl and I really like this other girl at school but I'm not if she likes me at all. I want to tell her but I'm scared of what her reaction may be. Please can somebody help me???!!!!
2006-11-26 10:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by Saint Kaine 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be careful, you're still in school. If this thing backfires it won't be nice. Hang out with her. Become friends with her and try to find out if she's gay or not. If she is gay, then go for it.
2006-11-27 20:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by PROPHET 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her out for ice cream or milkshake nothing fancy dont get up on her like a player take it slow girls dont like that. You could give her a good night kiss But on the cheak. The next day if she makes a good comment on the date then you know she likes you if she doesnt she is not intrested.If she liked the date and you did too ask her out again after a little you could maybe kiss her but nothing more than that.After all you like her you dont wanna push her away.I'll be 12 in may and I am a girl and i wouldnt want anything to go to fast.If you are a little nervous for the first date may I suggest group or double dating
2016-05-23 06:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember being in this situation, oh how it was to be young!
You need to see if she is gay. As I guess you are young, you may have not fully developed your gaydar, where most of the time you get some what of a inkeling that a girl is gay!
If you are sure she is tell her. If not I would leave it till you are sure. Unlike SOME people think we don't go trying to make people gay. We don't get free gifts for everyone we convert! So if she is striaght she isn't fair game and should be left alone. Look but don't touch by all means
Be all that you can be!
BYE
2006-11-27 19:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by nevergrowup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, visit a local young peoples drop in service for confidential advice-theyll be one in the town/city centre-if your school has learning mentors they will be able to give you the address else ask a teacher you trust.
be brave and visit these places as they are specially for young people and wont tell adults or other kids youre business, they won't judge you either. take a mate if it helps.
you can also get the address by going to a search engine (eg. yahoo) and putting in 'young peoples services' or 'lgbt youth'.
all the best-you can do it girl:)
2006-11-27 11:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by debbierolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hang out with her a lot, just stay over at her house. When you have those odd conversations that sound gay, which everyone does, just give her a hypothetical situation resembling yours. See her reaction.
2006-11-26 10:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Professor Sheed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, okay, calm down honey
Please take my advice:
Don't come right out into the open and tell her, if could ruin your rep forever. Instead wait and hang with her for a while to confirm if shes gay. Please dont rush into telling her!
2006-11-26 10:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by Horse With No Name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush stuff so fast i'm in the same thing u are in but i haven't told her anything yet i'm trying to take it slow yeah me and her flirt alot with each other but i think u should not tell her yet cuz i'm waiting for the right time to do it so take my advise ok
2006-11-26 12:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by GIGGLEZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it, you aint going to get pregnant with a girl are you, then when you grow up and dicover proper men you will know what to do when he wants a threesome
2006-11-26 12:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by "Call me Dave" 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont set your heart on her, enjoy liking lots of girls, dont have unprotected sex ask her what her ideal date would be and see her response!
2006-11-26 10:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by My name's MUD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, keep it to yourself. Im assuming you are young, and if word gets out now that youre a lesbian they might try to make your life hell. Postpone the lesbianism for a few years. Good girl.
2006-11-26 10:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋