ive been trying for a baby for over a year i have been to my gp and everything is fine with us both but i think that when my partner ejaculates that he doesnt actually get it in the hole and it goes, his penis just slides out what can i do.
2006-11-26 10:00:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
We tried for what felt like an eternity for our first little boy! The thing i swear worked for us was as soon as my your partner has ejaculated get a pillow under your hips and put your legs up in the air or up against a wall.......... sounds silly I know but we tried everything and that seemed to do the trick. If you don't think his semen is going in try raising your hips while you have sex (with pillows or something) so your entance is higher than your belly. Hope this works for you, It might sound crazy but it works! Keep at it and you'll get there, It'll all be worth it in the end I promise! Good luck honey xxx
2006-11-26 10:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by SARAH 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What? Try telling him to not be so wild. Also try laying on your back with a pillow under your bottom and then remain there for about 20 mins. Not scientific but won't hurt. I still don't get it. Tell him to use smaller movements at that point of the night. Also try using an ovulation kit to pinpoint the good days.
2006-11-26 10:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GP - does that mean general practicioner? If so, you need to go to an OBgyn that specializes in fertility. I went to my regular doctor for TWO years and he told me everything was fine, that we just needed to stop stressing...will come to find out after going to the OB that everything wasn't fine, that I needed to be put on Clomid. Have they run tests on both of you, HSG, his sperm, etc? His penis doesn't need to stay in you long after ejaculating, but I would definitly lay there with your hips up in the air for awhile, trust me these things do help as funny as they sound. Good luck!!
2006-11-26 10:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by prettyinpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After each menstruation, for a week or so, you'll get more discharge then the rest of the month. During that time, for one or two days, it'll become more clear in colour. This is when you are most fertile, try to have sex during this day or two. You are only able to get pregnant for a 24-48 period each month, and watching for this period will increase your chances.
I hope this helps you :) We just had our baby this year and I hope you'll soon be pregnant too - Good luck!!
2006-11-26 10:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are millions of sperm in an ejaculation ,im sure most of them are getting to the desired place.
You can always try keeping your hips raised for 15 minutes after sex with a cushion or pillow under your bottom,this is supposed to help.
2006-11-26 10:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don´t think it´s because your husband is not doing it right, I tryed for 4 years to have my second child ,not that I was complaining about all the practices, think sometimes when you make love with your husband could be you are not relaxed enough and in the back of your mind you still think, not this time either, dont worry it will happen , and maybe you should try different ways of making love, good luck
2006-11-26 10:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly when your making love, try not to think about making a baby, just enjoy the time together. if you have been to the docs and theres no medical reason why your not pregnant, try to relax and not stress too much.
regarding him slipping out, have you tried different positions, or holding your hand on it and guiding it gently in place yourself at the time of climax? it's worth a try.
fingers crossed you fall pregnant soon, just remember love making is not all about conceiving, it's supposed to be fun too!
2006-11-26 10:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get hubby to use smaller movements insure all goes in pillow under bum does help mother nature tried for two years to have my first we were all ok then i found out that i ovulated early in the cycle than norm fell for my first on day 8 and my second on day 6 be patient and good luck !!!!
2006-11-27 00:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to an specialized Obstetrician. There are also clinics for help in positioning. Ck with your local hospital.
2006-11-26 10:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by ShaamAnsu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there,
medically i thinks there's something called iui out there that your gyno could try it's where they inject the sperm straight into you.
2006-11-26 13:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by doughnut1002001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋