well my friends baby is 4.but she dosen't want to talk or use the potty.she also just like to be picked up like a baby.and she stills her 4months year old brothers pacifier and sucks it.and when her mom sleeps with the baby she gets mad and starts to shak the baby in the crib.is she normal or what?
2006-11-26 09:13:37 · 10 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
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2006-11-27 11:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the 4 yr old child isn't talking or using the potty, maybe your friend should have a word with the doctor who could give her some information, or maybe speak to the health visitor ,as its quite delayed. Sounds like the child could be jealous of the about of time the mother is spending with the new baby. They say when a new baby comes along, the older child goes back to acting like a baby for a while.
2006-11-26 09:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A four year old is not a baby. They are ready for pre school, can use a fork and maybe knife too. They can look through books, play a computer game, ride a bike with training wheels, change a dolly diaper, mix a cake, decorate a pizza, dress themselves, remember to wash their hands after toileting, use scissors and glue, draw pictures...... this little girl needs medical assessment.
2006-11-26 09:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by asiwant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this child behind on other developmental things? Like did she walk on time, does she get easily frustrated? I think your friend should take her 4 yr old to the dr. and have her checked for delays or autism. Or maybe she's just having a very difficult time adjusting to the new child. Either way a doctor can help them.
2006-11-26 09:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the mom sleeping in the crib with the baby?
The mom needs to seek help for this girl. Or spend some quality time with her. Sounds like she is begging for attention.
2006-11-26 09:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sherral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious the girl is jealous of the new baby. she just wants attention. i just had a baby and there are times that my oldest gets a little jealous. i just make her feel like a big sister and make her feel shes helping out with the baby. like letting her carry him (with lots of pillow support of course and mommy or daddy watching) and letting her hold the bottle when hes eating.
her mommy should maybe make her feel like she has some kind of "responsibility" over her sibling so she wont act like a baby and try to act like the bigger sister
2006-11-26 09:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes older kids get mad when there parents have babys but she should keep an eye on the older child around the baby
2006-11-26 09:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by pg#3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop babying the little girl
its is just a phase to get attention
2006-11-26 09:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by *CoNfUSiNg* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what comes with children having children. Of course it is not normal. This child is not being effectively PARENTED.
2006-11-26 09:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't normal for asking questions you know nothing about.
2006-11-26 11:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by TRUE PATRIOT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋