if anyone knows on how to keep a happy home?

Question

just got married wondering on how to stay as happy as we are know. or how to keep it health? Cause i have 2 little boys i'm bring in to all of this. they think of him as a dad cause he is all they ever know.

Answer 1

congratulations!
It is very important to make time for each other, even when you're both busy. Reserving a date night from time to time can help your relationship stay fun and interesting. Remember to give him enough time and attention- it's too easy when you're a mom to always think of the kids first, and figure that your husband is a grown-up and can take care of himself, but that can be hurtful to him. You need to show husbands that you value them, too.

Avoid ultimatums- there couldn't be that many issues that either of you can't compromise on. When people over-use ultimatums, they are basically listing reasons to call the whole thing off. Think about it- if there are 50 reasons either of you would divorce, you wouldn't really want to be married.

Make a budget! Finances are the most common reason spouses fight. Figure out how much money is coming in, how much you need to spend on bills and saving, and try to be fair with the extra money. When it comes to large purchases, make an agreement to talk it over with the other before buying. Try to approach disagreements like an opportunity to learn something about the other. Sometimes couples argue because they each don't realize how important something is to the other person.

Last, remember to have a sense of humor. You're both going to see each other at your best and worst. That's why you get to tell funny stories about each other when you're old. LOL.

Good luck :)

Answer 2

do everything together that you can. let the boys know that you and him are there for them both boys. you can get a babysitter. maybe one night out if the week. or maybe one night out if the month. please don't forget you and your husband haves needs too!
some places you can go with the boys are the park,chuck e cheese you know whats in your area. and for you the movies,out to eat museums and don't forget maybe a nice quit hotel you know too keep the sparks alive!