just got married wondering on how to stay as happy as we are know. or how to keep it health? Cause i have 2 little boys i'm bring in to all of this. they think of him as a dad cause he is all they ever know.
2006-11-26 09:10:59 · 11 answers · asked by spoiled brat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi,
Congrats! Ok, my advice to you is to always talk, communication is the answer! Never make comments you'll later regret and NEVER go to bed on an arguement.
Good luck!!
2006-11-26 09:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by scooby doo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be willing to understand what his needs are and let him know that he can trust you with anything, all of his deepest, darkest and shameful secrets. If he can trust you with all this he will be more willing to talk with you about things that bother him or make him insecure. If he can't trust you, he will always be keeping something from you. always be willing to do things for him that make him happy, and learn what new things might make him happy. On the same point, be willing to express your needs and wants with him.
Long lasting love is about giving and sacrificing your needs for his. Hopefully he will feel the same way, but most men don't. Find the beauty and joy in putting your husband and family ahead of your needs, and you will find the happiness that doesn't expire.
2006-11-26 17:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you eat your main meal of the day together. At this time you can discuss the problems and successes of that day. Do fun things as a family unit. Be careful of how much TV is watched. Respect each other and the kids and never argue in front of the kids. When you do argue and it will happen keep the name calling out of it argue with respect. Best of luck.
2006-11-26 17:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by Aberdeen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are married 18 yrs, 4 kids, 3 teenagers, 1 adult. We always put our kids first. We say,,,, "if our kids are happy, then we are happy" All 3 of our teenagers work, ages 15,16,17. Our family didn't just come the way it is, MY husband and I made it that way.
2006-11-26 17:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure the house is clean and dinner is cooked when your husband gets home each night. Also keep up your appearance.
2006-11-26 17:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. obey God
2. love, honor, and pray for one another
3. tell the truth
4. consider one another's interests ahead of your own
5. speak quietly and respectfully with one another
6. do not hurt one another with unkind words or deeds
7. when someone needs correction, correct in love
8. when someone is sorry, forgive them
9. when someone is sad, comfort them
10. when someone is happy, rejoice with them
11. when we have something nice to share, we share it
12. when we have work to do, we do it without complaining
13. take good care of everything God has given us
14. do not create unnecessary work for others
15. if you open it, close it
16. take something out, put it back
17. turn something on, turn it off
18. make a mess, clean it
19. don't know what to do, ask
20. when we go out we act as if we were in this house
21. when we forget or disobey any of these rules we accept the discipline and instruction of the Lord
God Bless you and your family!!!
2006-11-26 17:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sounds great. Just be honest. Bake lots of cookies.
2006-11-26 17:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by cold runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fkeep a clean house, open communication, never go to bed angry at each other.Marriage is like a bed of roses.....with thorns in it.Always show love and support in front of kids, and never argue in front of them
2006-11-26 17:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by michelle a 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep the home clean and the meals ready when he walks in from work. just always be there for him!
2006-11-26 17:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love as much as you can and you'll do just fine, hun. <3
2006-11-26 17:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Addicted to Crayola Paste 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋