well now that i have a job i have to drop off my now 5month baby daughter at her babysitters.but she always has hickeys on her private when i change her diaped at home.i'm worrie that her babysitter might me sexually touching her.should i contact the police?
2006-11-26 09:08:06 · 16 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
but i took her to the docters and they said its not a rash or a dease.they say its a hicky.should i quite my job and start staying with her and mabe move from the babysitter so she can't find her?
2006-11-26 09:15:25 · update #1
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2006-11-27 10:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not normal for sure.
Do you know if she uses different diapers? Or, do you keep her a supply of the ones you use? Some diapers will cause an allergic reaction. Also, wipes could do the same thing. Did you ask the doctor what would cause the marks? Could she be leaving her in a wet diaper too long?
I would take some time off work (even if its just a day) and find out how she's getting those marks. Your first stop should be the police station. They'll be able to do a once over with someone who is experienced in this area.
Also, I'd call the sitter and tell her you noticed the marks and if she knows what they are from/how got there.
2006-11-26 17:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Do you think hickeys just jump on people? You said always. You think that something might be going on but are still dropping her off. Yes call the cops or take her to the dr and find a new babysitter. Background checks or an accredited center.
2006-11-26 17:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm? are you ten years old and wagging off school?
No real mother would see something like that and not freak out! If I saw any mark on my babys private parts when she had been left with someone else, I would be like a wild animal and have to be restrained from that person!
If you really DO have a baby and you also have a friend who has a problem with HER child then I suggest the both of you get some serious help. If you dont know where to start, go to a local church and ask if they have a mothers group where you might meet with other mothers who can teach you some skills.
2006-11-26 17:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by asiwant 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is indeed a real question...I would take a week off of work and find out what's causing those marks. Go to the pediatrician have the spots checked out and since you won't be taking the baby to child care it'll give you a chance to see if the marks continue to appear when she's away from the childcare provider.
2006-11-26 17:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by tangyterp83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you were going to stop lying. You promised in your last question. Stay in school and get an education. Lord knows you need it. Stop wasting every ones time. Go to the link below. She asks to be forgiven for her lies. She isn't married, she has no children and she asks a lot of homework questions. I would say she is pre-teen or junior high at the most, judging from her grammar.
2006-11-26 19:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by TRUE PATRIOT 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you took the child to the Doctor and he said it was a "hickey"
he/she is required by law to report the abuse right away. so
my guess this is just a question from someone trying to be
funny while at the same time being a pervert.
2006-11-26 17:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by barrbou214 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you did take her to the "docter", They are under obligation by LAW to report any possible signs of abuse. So.....
Besides, your baby is aging fast! She was just born 2 months ago and she is already 5 months? Wow.
2006-11-26 19:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by Newt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im not gonna believe that your doctor told you that its hickeys and sent you home with no other questions. and why would you have to move away from your babysitter? your story is a little fishy
2006-11-26 17:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Gracie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DEFINATELY find a new sitter. Try a center or friend if possible. If you can quit your job, and you can't find a sitter, then quit. Things like abuse effect children long into their adult years if allowed to go on.
2006-11-26 17:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an IDIOT...I don't believe a word of your ridiculous question. You should be ashamed of yourself! Do you know that there are mothers out there that have suffered because their children HAVE been sexually abused, and you come on here and JOKE about it!! You are F*CKED up!
2006-11-26 17:44:52 · answer #11 · answered by Trixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋