My husband and i tried to concieve last month. Im talking every day since my last cycle. I even purchased ovulation kits and ensured that we tried even harder around these dates. We were certain that i would be pregnant and then i got my period and it was normal. He is not at all a heavy drinker and i quit smoking recently b4 we started trying. Im taking elevit multivitamins and we have ensured a healthier diet. Ive never been on the pill.... Is this normal for very healthy couples or is it just us?? what do i do from here.
2006-11-26 09:06:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Hi there, the problem is that you are trying . I have the same problem with new spouse . I am flying overseas to him on ovalution time and but that is the problem . You have to relax and enjoy each other like , go on another honeymoon, be seductive and enjoy each other . I know you dont want to hear this but when it is really time it will happen and you and hubby will be really blessed a little bundle of joy... I will pray for you and him .
Good luck and lots of baby dust
2006-11-26 09:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Nava 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've read that even if you have the luteinizing hormone (which the ovulation kit detects) that you are not necessarily ovulating. You can have a period and have the LH without actually releasing an egg. They say to try a year before seeing a doctor but if you really are concerned you could try to see if 1) you are definitely ovulating and/or 2) if your husband has viable sperm.
2006-11-26 12:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A doctor will tell you to try for a yr. before seeing a doctor. It usually takes about a yr.or less for a man and women with normal fertility to become pregnant. However, you could be one of those women that it takes much longer. Ive been ttc for 3 yrs. and im healthy. It could also be your husband too. You've only tried for 1 month. You have 8 more to go. i wouldnt worry.
2006-11-26 11:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to hard.
You are getting all tensed up and worried then nothing happens.
Have you ever heard of couples who have tried and tried for years without success. Finally give in and adopt a baby only to find they are going to be parents in the near future of their own child. They finally relaxed with the problems of a new baby so where able to conceive on their own.
Give it time.
You have only been trying for a month.
You are not a parking meter. Put in the dime and the time starts. Mother nature does not work that way.
2006-11-26 09:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that this occurs. and that i do it from time to time. yet there is usually a grain of certainty to it. permit's settle for it, christians are everywhere in the map in terms of ways they harmonize their non secular perspectives with actual commentary and the 'accuracy' of the bible. working example some say the story of the flood is an allegory and not meant to be taken actually jointly as others take it so actually that they contend it did no longer rain till the fllod. on the different hand, Christians, willfully misinterpet the theory of evolution inspite of being corrected on it irepeatedly. No biologist has ever claimed that guy more advantageous from monkeys or that a monkey without warning gave delivery to a human or that a fish gave delivery to a chook. yet I see this fake illustration on right here each and all the time and oftern from the comparable guy or woman in spite of the certainty that their errors has been mentioned to them.
2016-10-17 14:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would seek profestional help, b/c there could be something with your body or even or husband. And I wouldn't get discourage b/c it take a normal couple up to a year to actuly conceive. So give it a little time and if it doesnt work then go to the doctor they could help.. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-26 09:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even under perfect circumstances, there's only a 25% chance of conception. A doctor won't even evaluate you for infertility until you've been trying for at least a year.
Lots of folks get pregnant in their first month of trying, but it takes longer for other people, and that's normal, too.
Have fun trying for the next year.
2006-11-26 10:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Yarro Pilz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you only have been trying for a month then i wouldnt think too much of it i mean it takes a healthy couple 6 months to conceive sometimes dont get yourself stressed out. i dont think smoking has anything to do with it i was a really heavy smoker when i got pregnant with my son, i quit of course when i found out i was pregnant but i dont think that has anything to do with it, are you wanting a cigarette at all because if you are wanting one really badly then you could be stressing your body out and throwing things of course. i wish you the best of luck and i hope you get that baby you are longing for
2006-11-26 09:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average couple takes about 8 months to conceive. Having sex every day isn't the best option either. If you have sex on the fertile days each month, only have sex once a day, it takes time for sperm to grow. If you don't know your fertile days having sex every other day the whole month is the best option.
2006-11-26 09:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only been trying for a month, wait it out awhile. Relax and you'll eventually become pregnant, god willing. If you've been trying for a LONG, long while, go and see a doctor to make sure the both of you can have children.
2006-11-26 09:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by cheyenne2584 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋