I peronally want stuff falling off the headboard and the neighbors yelling at us to "Shut up". I've been seeing her for a couple of months and all she wants is slow and easy and I'm loosing my patients. The question is "Are there women who *Only* want it slow and easy or will she grow out of it?
2006-11-26 08:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give her time, Im sure she'll get down and dirty soon:) most women do
2006-11-26 09:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start off slow and easy and tease her a little bit. See if you can go even slower than she wants and not put it in all the way, maybe half way, giving her the whole thing every once in a while. If she tells you to go faster, don't, stay slow. If you can get her to c um that way, you will have done your job, then you can lay down the hammer!
You could surprise her some time and just dominate her. hold her down and just go get it, without worrying about if she liked it. I would bet it really turns her on.
2006-11-26 09:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After extensive research on web sites that my mother would slap me around the face, if she knew I was going to, I can tell you that American sites tend to go for the harder and faster, while the European sites prefer a slower approach.
So what does that tell us? Absolutely nothing. But I just wanted to share that with you.
Now, as per your question. Variety is the spice of life, so don't be stuck on only enjoying your style, at the same time she should also be prepared to try something different. Try each others style and shout out marks out of ten as you go along.
2006-11-26 09:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it occured to you that slow and easy may be the only way she can get to the point of orgasim? maybe you can take it slow and easy and after she finishes you can then go harder and faster the way you like it. That way you are both happy with the experience. Talk to her about it
2006-11-26 09:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a secret to a happy relationship in all things................it's called compromise. You meet her needs and she meets yours. It sounds like you need to have a talk with her. Tell her you want to make her happy and you hope she wants to make you happy. Than hope she meets you half way. Or sometimes her way and sometimes your way.
Have you also considered the fact that going faster makes you a "minute man" so to speak. Slow it down and let her see that you can please her all night long. There is a lot you can do by slowing it down. Sounds like you are missing out.
Just remember men heat up like frying pans, women are like a iron. Takes a while but when they are hot, they are sizzling. I think if you meet her needs she'll be just as anxious to get rocking as you are.
2006-11-26 09:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just want it slow and easy because she knows that fast and hard will make you come faster. I like it slow and sensual until he can't hold back any longer and then I want a rough rider!!
When you are in control, you can do whatever you want, give it to her fast and hard and she if she complains, if she does, maybe you will have to take turns on who gets to have their way.
2006-11-26 12:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it hard and fast most of the time but there are times when I want my man to be more tender, too. It could be that perhaps you're well endowed and if you go hard and fast, it hurts her. Vary the tempo and pace occasionally, or get her VERY excited, almost to the point of orgasm before you even put it into her and then she'll be begging you to finish her off...and then she may find she likes it hard and fast..
2006-11-26 10:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Joyce H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men seem to like it hard and don't realize that women do to AFTER you start nice and slow. No woman wants to start fast and furious. Lead up to it. Talk dirty all day, rub her gently here and there. After you are in bed, TAKE YOUR TIME. Believe me, she'll be begging you to do it fast and hard when she's ready... but not until then.
2006-11-26 10:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women equate slow and easy with "making love" and fast and hard with "f*#cking";if you want the latter, try something outdoors where you have to do it fast-car, park, etc.
2006-11-26 09:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by bb4pb510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Maybe you could talk to her and tell her that you love making love slow and easy, but sometime you would also like to try it your way.
2006-11-26 09:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine there are women who only like it slow and easy. I personally don't know any, my friends and I all like to be more adventurous.
2006-11-26 09:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by limbomom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋