Girl, if he's the same guy from your other question (that the reason you're not using a condom is because "he doesn't like it"--what guy does?!) and if you're not sure you want a kid (such an important decision! It would change your life completely forever, and your guy could leave you no matter what--a month ago you said you didn't want a kid...) but you still want to be with him, I would really start using the pill!
I mean, if you both are in a responsible mature stable long relationship and both want a kid and are ready to support it and are really trying (if you're having sex during the right time of the month etc etc), then I'd go see a gynecologist, maybe either of you have even a small problem that can be easily solved...
but if you or him are not sure... do use birth control! (and he might be the coolest nicest guy but are you sure he has absolutely no sexual transmitted disease?--just in case he's the same boyfriend from your other question, who doesn't like to use condoms)...
Kids are NOT a solution to anything, if a relationship is not stable it might turn out that simple one more person will be suffering!
I truly wish you good luck.
2006-11-30 07:25:38
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answered by Lakini 3
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My boyfriend and I had sex for 1 year and he ejaculated inside of me the whole time I never got pregnant. I already had one child so I knew I could get pregnant there wasnt anything wrong. I am now 8 months pregnant. It doesnt always mean something is wrong with you it could just be the wrong time to get pregnant. If you are looking to get pregnant go to your Dr. and explain and he can run some tests and see whats going on. Good Luck
2006-11-26 09:04:44
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answered by baby squirl 2
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first I am sure you will hear about this more than just me., but why are you trying to get pregnant if you are not married. Please tell me you are not on of these teenagers that are trying to get pregnant so someone will love you. Could be you are not having sex @ the right time of the month. A women can only get pregnant like 2-3 days out of the month and sperm only survive about 24-48 hrs. Could also mean that you are trying to hard. OR could be a medical problem. IF you are wanting lids that bad. talk to a dr and talk about fertility issues.
2006-11-26 08:42:27
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answered by tera_duke 4
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I'm no expert but it could be that your boyfriend has a low sperm count. He might want to see a doctor to have himself checked..or you might want to have yourself checked out for possibilities. I can tell you from experience that IF there is a problem with you or your partner, there are wonderful facilities that can help, like IVF. Because of them I now (after 12 years of trying) have a daughter. Relax and don't give up hope.
2006-11-26 08:52:50
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answered by pooh 1
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It took my husband and I 2 years before I got pregnant. We weren't trying really, just having sex several times a week. You have to have sex during ovulation to get pregnant. Also, masturbation and frequent sex lowers sperm count.
2006-11-26 08:42:03
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answered by HollyB 2
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Now everyone can cure infertility using this natural remedy http://pregnancyhelps.info
infertility can run in the family and one of the first things the doctor asks you when you go to a fertility clinic is your family history regarding cases of infertility or other reproductive issues.
If infertility is caused by genetic disorder then it's not unusual that one of the kids (your mom) doesn't have it and another does (your aunt).
two months of trying is still to early to be concerned about the fact that you might be infertile and it's also quite early to go to a fertility specialist. Go to a regular Obgyb to get a closer insight and see what ways there are are to improve your fertility rate.
Also remove alcohol, caffeine and cigarettes from your life because they might influence your chances too. Stress is also a risk factor when it comes to infertility.
2014-12-21 06:20:19
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answered by Anonymous
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It took me five years to get pregnant. I had my cervix froze the doc said 99% chance I could not have kids and within 3 months I was was pregnant.
2006-11-26 08:49:24
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answered by aloneathome 3
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if you have just come of the pill or something like it, it can take a few months to come out of your system. if you dont fall pregnant with in a year then go to the docs and they will send you for tests to see if it could be something else
2006-11-26 08:43:42
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answered by Anonymous
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It can take a little bit of time to conceive if you have just come off of birth control (sometimes up to a year).
2006-11-26 08:39:38
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answered by tangyterp83 6
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2014-08-01 18:37:23
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answered by Anonymous
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