she does it but i have to beg like a dog and then she won't swallow
2006-11-26 08:05:49 · 34 answers · asked by flaked_rice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not all women like that sort of thing. All women are different. Now, that being said, it could be YOU. Hope you're clean. Freshly showered is the only way to go.
2006-11-26 08:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
A couple of reasons
1. Religious background (silly but true)
2. She think it's demeaning
3. She thinks it's filthy
4. She does not like the taste of semen (won't swallow)
Solutions (correlates to the above)
1. Damn near impossible if she's a religious zealot
2. Make it a mutual experience. Sixty Nine is a good way to ease her impression
3. Her parents may have told her not to put that "THANG" in their mouth. This one may not be able to be overcome. Go down on her in the sixty nine position. Have it in her face or around her face. Once you have her fully aroused and loving what you are doing start asking her just to kiss it. The next time you are frisky do the same thing and ask for the kiss and then a lick. Just work in to it.
4. You drop a couple of Altoids over the course of the day. For some reason, the flavor does not get broken down completely during the digestive process. A chick told me I tasted just like the Altoids's I'd been dropping all day. She became the BJ champion of all time!
2006-11-26 08:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why, but I can tell you I never would have married my wife if she didn't give BJ's. And I think it is a big thing. Some times we both just do whatever we can to please the other person. I mean this one at a time. Sometimes I'll approach her with the intent that I don't care if I climax, I'm there to give her an orgasm. Sometimes she's that way with me. Most times I'm selfish and just looking out for myself, sometimes she is. Serious discussion in a non-sexual setting I find helpful for us. Bring up expectations, and fantasies, but be careful with the fantasies. I'm sure you've may have done this before but expectations and fantasies can and do change.
2006-11-26 08:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by joe blow u still dont know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you give back the favor? There's a ton of reason why she might not like it. Best to just ask her. But you can probably forget about the swallowing thing. I mean think about it, it is pretty gross. My wife gives me the best BJs I've ever experienced (including a couple of girls who did swallow) but she just can't do the swallow thing and I can't blame her.
2006-11-26 08:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
te first stephanie to answer is a goddess,, and richard c for president!!.. anyways,, most are correct,, about the flavor my wife is one of the few that enjoy it flavor aside,, but if your lucky enuff to get a bj dont insist on swallowing,, and if you have to beg,, beg for a month or so,, non stop,, then all of the sudden stop and act like you have no interest in it,, she will wonder where you are going to get them,, also try the pineapple juice,,
2006-11-26 08:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a common problem!! I am a happily married woman and my husband is completely satisfied!!! Your solution is that you need to take her in the shower. Let her wash that nasty thing and then let her go at it with the water running in her mouth it gives you a liitle something different and she will not smell or taste anything, nor will you know if she is swallowing or not. PROBLEM SOLVED.
2006-11-26 10:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a woman wants to please her man she must give an excellent BJ!!!!! I love to satisfy my man and if he wants me to swallow I do! If you don't do it girls there is someone else out there waiting to do what you didn't want to. I think it is pretty much the best orgasm a man can have and i feel sorry for men that are stuck in a marriage with no BJ!
2006-11-26 10:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she like it when you beg!
And as for swallowing is it really that big a deal?
I only swallow on special occasions
2006-11-26 08:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my horn dog friend. Women like to give us bj's they just don't like to admit it. The taste is a bit bitter "so I've been told" and you can remedy that by drinking plenty of pineapple juice. It makes it nice and tasty. She wont be able to wait till she can swallow a mouthful. You can also hit her with the fact that women who swallow decrease the chance of getting breast cancer by 50%. It's true! I swear it's true!
2006-11-26 08:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Roll'n Bluntz 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
A lot of women aren't crazy about it. It turns me on personally. Stop begging for a while and then see what happens, you should always talk about sexual needs and preferences, and do your best to satisfy your partner.
2006-11-26 13:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she feels like its demeaning or she is not into doing BJ's. Do you go down on her? May you should suggest 69. Anyway, what is it about guys and wanting a woman to swallow it. My rule if a guy won't swallow his stuff, I won't either. (lol)
2006-11-26 08:10:19 · answer #11 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋