I'ma 19 year old bi-femae but have never dated 'publically; with anotehr woman. Can you send me some tips or be there for advice?
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2006-11-26 08:03:18 · 6 answers · asked by aprilx4u 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well, the main reason I'm concerned, is that the men I date dont know my other preference, and the people I work with arent aware either
2006-11-26 08:19:25 · update #1
Be yourself. Don't worry about what others are doing or if they are watching.
It's no different than me going out with my much older bf and people giving us funny looks. It's none of their business or place to judge. Whoever does is just ignorant and that's their problem- not yours.
2006-11-26 08:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kami 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what tips I can give you since two women on a date isn't really seen as taboo any longer...you may get some odd looks but it is nothing to worry about. Most of the looks will be from men wishing he were in the middle..of course.
2006-11-26 08:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the answer "it is not a big deal any more now".
I have always seen women being very close (arm in arm holding hands etc) since my youth (I'm 66 now) and still see high school girls going to lunch together. No big deal. now if you want to kiss and other stuff you will disgust most passersbys, but they'll ignore you.
You might romantically date another woman.
If I offered to take you to the opera and dinner??, Would you go ?ekchhhh!!!!!Ha Ha Ha
2006-11-26 09:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it like going with a girl friend out for dinner/dancing etc.
Do you want to make out or something in public? Holding hands/embracing is not a big deal any more... Relax.
2006-11-26 08:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kaizer Soze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, I thought i should write that as long as your happy with yurself then you should be fine about what happens in public. I have pashed a few girls in pulic before, and yeah we got looks but no-one commented or anything.
seriously dont worry about what anyone else thinks. Hey i would be open with you in public.
If you would like please feel free to email me.
Im a really open person.
2006-11-26 13:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to say you don't publically date...means you are still somewhat in the closet! so when you decide to come out with your true self , then you will have no problems with it.
2006-11-26 08:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋