hes an awesome person and he shows that he cares about me, he even sent me 50 bucks because i needed stuff for school. hes hilarious and fun to be around. i laugh at everything he says and my friends say im obsessed with him. i also think hes cute but i never think of him sexually. sometimes i wonder what it would be like to kiss him but thats only how far my thoughts go. i also wonder if he thinks about me sometimes. ive been close to him for 2yrs and sometimes he says stuff that makes me wonder if he feels the same way. he told me he thinks im very pretty but he also told me that he doesnt want to be with anyone but his ex (he really loved her and she left him) so i try not to get too close to him. i really admire him, but im confused about the way i feel about him. do you think i love him more than a friend? what about him? does he just love me as a friend or do you think theres more?
2006-11-26 07:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Lucky you. Sounds like you have the perfect ingredients for a great relationship. You already know eachother very well and you already have a great time together, so go for it!
2006-11-26 08:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best boyfriend is a good best friend. Just because you don't think about someone sexually does not mean you're not in love with them. Why does he want to be with a woman that doesn't want him? He should be looking for a best friend and lover. One day just give him a kiss on the cheek and a great big hug and tell him you love him. After all he is your friend and he should understand that.
Rich
2006-11-26 08:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Roll'n Bluntz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have described, it sounds like a definite possibility but only you can determine whether you are in love or not. If you think he may feel the same, it really needs to be discussed. You need to decide how you feel before you discuss it with your friend, though. If you do decide you have feelings for him, it sounds like you have a good basis for a relationship. Good luck.
2006-11-26 08:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you two are just best friends. if you want to know if there would be sparks if you two ever got together. just kiss him. telll him its something you need to do- im sure hell be fine with it since you guys are such close friends. if it gives you butterflies and you discover that you DO want to go further with him, then i think you like him as more than a friend. but if you kiss him and you dont feel anything, well you got it over with and you dont have to wonder about kissing him.
from what you wrote it seems like youre just confused. see how you feel after you kiss him. like the song goes ... "its in his kiss"
let me know how it goes... =)
2006-11-26 08:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by _peaches_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl i think ur a litle confused i think u should test him like try to find out more about his feeling about his ex or mayb u think u love him bcause u r friend for long time just think about what u feel or try to meet someone else to prove urself if u are really in love with him good luck
2006-11-26 08:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jolie Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, for you to go on this website and write this question...YOU LOVE THE GUY. I am in the same predicament but like a stage later. we ended up kissing and now its a little confusing...but go with ur instinct on things...it'll work out, the worst that can happen is he says no...good luck
2006-11-26 08:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer your question. go to the video store and watch the movie... (some kind of wonderful )with eric sholtz in it.and when your done watching it ask yourself do I like him for a bestfriend or do I love him? good luck
2006-11-26 08:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Charles U F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just talk to him about it...thats the best way to do anything. If you wonder something just ask :) Thats what you are doing now!
2006-11-26 08:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Angel_ThuGEt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're in love. Tell him how you feel. If you truely are close to him, you two can figure it out. Be prepared for him to not have the same feelings for you though.
2006-11-26 08:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Beamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know the answer to that, as for as the way he feels about you, you will only know if you ask him. let him know you are not pushing or rushing him into anything since he is still getting over his ex.
2006-11-26 08:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋