2006-11-26 07:58:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say if they were in a serious relationship together it doesn't matter if they are married he could very well have also went out on his previous wife? Are you sure the story of the ex wife cheating on him is accurate - not he other way around and he wanted to look like the victim? If the ex wife did go out on him and he in fact has gone out of the girlfriend I would get out of the relationship he obviously has some deep-rooted problems. It is like why does the child of a wife beater beat his own wife? Because they hate their mother for not standing up to the father or getting them out of the situation? Who knows each situation is different and unless you are a professional and the person wants to change knowing their reason will not help. I believe the old saying - once a person cheats they will do it again. If they are in a serious relationship I think many people have been tempted at times or maybe attracted to another and the thought was there but I think once you cross that line there is not turning back and you realize for whatever reason you can and will do it again. Also if someone does that to you the trust is gone so end it.
2006-11-26 08:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by camolentot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer being glib and tripe right here, yet easily, you the two choose some counseling, possibly the two in my view and at the same time as a pair,in case you will attempt and shop your marriage. The believe is obviously lost. no longer that it can not be re-kindled, yet you adult men have extreme matters that choose the intervention of a 0.33-occasion expert. of direction, this assumes you the two prefer to shop it. If the two of you needs out, it purely can no longer take place. I do wish you nicely in this and regardless of in case you do no longer prefer to shop it, some person counseling for you could desire to be so as. As on your question, my suspicion is that she felt something became incorrect on your marriage and doubtless your verbal replace became stricken such which you all could no longer (or would not) communicate approximately it. good success brother. i'm hoping it seems the style you prefer it to. It sounds like there should be somewhat some therapeutic right here and that i might propose you flow into all of it with an extremely open strategies.
2016-10-17 14:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by durrett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of formerly married men don't consider a bf/gf relationship as meaning there is much of a commitment between the two like a marriage does. It sounds like he is still on the rebound (or you don't know enough of the whole story on why his marriage failed). The best person to ask however - would be him - unless he can't be trusted to be honest (which is likely).
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-26 08:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he feels a girlfriend isnt the same as a wife???
Guess ya need to ask HIM.
2006-11-26 08:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI!
Forlorn Hope makes alot of sense. There are always 2 sides!!!
2006-11-26 08:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you don't honestly know that it was only her, you're taking his word for that. maybe it was both, and he didn't change, hoping the girlfriend would believe his story.either way they need to talk about this and maybe seek counseling otherwise this relationship won't survive.
2006-11-26 08:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking with the wrong head - the smaller one is never right, it is just a lot stronger .
2006-11-26 08:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pig and has no self control.If he really cared about a woman he would be with only her.
2006-11-26 10:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low moral character..
2006-11-26 08:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it was ONLY her cheating in that relationship???
2006-11-26 08:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋