Ok, since I don't want to mention my friends name over the internet, lets jjust call her: Jeana
Ok so "Jeana" was the 1st friend I ever had. I met her when I was 4 and I adored her. She was my idol. I wanted to be just like her and everything. From the time I was 4 til the time I was about 10, I loved Jeana. I always wanted her to be my big sister because I thought she was cooler than me, Prettier than me...etc. But latley everything has changed. From the time I turned 11, she chnaged. She got moody, rude, and acted like she was too cool for me. So everytime she was rude, I would ask her what is wrong. She would never tell me. Then when I turned 12 (now) I feel like she is jealous of me or something. She thinks I lie to her, about having my period, bra size, all that stupid stuff that she shouldn't worry about. She even lies about her bra size and she is jealous because I am 1 size bigger (big whoop). I just don't understand her! Please help! (There lots I could say but no more room
2006-11-26 07:25:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok sweetie, here's the deal. You guys are all growing up to the age where your hormones are changing and so your interests are changing as well. You used to play with dolls, and now you'll be thinking about boys. So if she's changing it's natural and you guys might be growing apart and that's ok too. It could be that she's not the friend that you thought she was. When we're kids everyone kid in the neighborhood are friends but as we get older our values will change and that's why she may have different values than you. So you need to find friends with similar values. What are values? For example, if she likes to smoke or do drugs and you don't then those are hers and yours with different values. If she become lesbian and you don't, again those are values. So you have to hang out with someone who shares your values and not forced on them. As you get older you'll have more and more true friend. I lost all my childhood friends because we don't share the same values. So don't worry and just be yourself.
2006-11-26 07:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her some time to come around.. she may be jealous.. complementing her might work, but don't do it like you are talking down to her (ohhhhh you look sooooooooo CUTE in that) just act normal.. mabye you could just make sure that she knows you consider yourself her equal -not more or less mature then her. and stop talking about suff that shes insecure about, but don't avoid it obviously, that'll make her more insecure...
didja get any of that ??
i didn't think so. lol. =] good luck
2006-11-26 15:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by itsALICE! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very insecure. Back off for a couple of days....no phone calls even. It's her turn to ask what is wrong. Then you tell her how you feel.
2006-11-26 15:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by laineelf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't classify this person as a friend. She is bickering over petty issues. It's time for you to move forward with your life and group yourself with genuine friends.
2006-11-26 15:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Felicity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u get to be licensed cost....since u are only 12 it don't matter. u just be greatfull that ur learning who she is now.
2006-11-26 15:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she's mad at u, and tell her to tell the truth.
2006-11-26 15:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by haten life!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idislikeyounow.
dont talk to me please, thanks.
2006-11-27 15:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋