I really want to tell a great friend of mine that I am starting to have different feelings for him. He’s been a friend for almost two years. We always talk at least once or twice a day and go out for dinner and/or drinks on the weekend….Our relationship is such that we talk about each others likes/dislikes, personal and professional careers and at time the kind of relationships we look for….
He is much more outgoing in that he will try to attract and/or see if he could connect with a girl that he admires from afar….He is sometimes successful that he would date the girl(s) a few times and have fun being around them…I catch myself feeling jealous or put out when I hear things like that….as is if I am jealous…or can’t figure out that it may seem obvious that I am attracted to him….I must admit our relationship is like buddies/pals…where we talk about almost anything…no holds bar in the kinds of subject matters that we talk about.
I would be very uncomfortable telling someone for the risk of getting hurt and/or having it be a strain on the relationship….Should I just wait it out to see how it goes that eventually my feelings may change that we would be better of being friends????
2006-11-26 07:22:50 · 7 answers · asked by LES 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i just asked this ? yesterday
go for it and if it doesnt work then at least u gave it a shot
better then down the road thinkin
wut would have happened if or could he have been the guy
if u both r really good friends nothin should change between u 2
2006-11-26 07:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think before you tell him how you feel, you should ask him how he feels about you. You'll have the facts straight and if he doesn't like you as more than a friend then you won't feel embarrassed. Don't ever think that you are not good enough for a guy. He's may just not be the one. I hope that helped.
2006-11-26 15:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sen10r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i like a girl for a every long time. I finally told her that i like her. she likes me too. i then asked her out, and she said yes. Many guys think that it is unattractive for a girl to ask a guy out, i don't care, but just dint ask him out because he might say no. Well tell him (yourself) how you feel for him. You never know he might like you back, take a chance. If he says he doesn't like you back then he doesn't like you back. Well i wish you the best of luck
AN nothing should change between you two.
-Joey
2006-11-26 15:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Joe A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good relationships come from people being good friends first. I think you should tell him how you feel he might even feel the same way.
2006-11-26 15:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by colormespoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel and if he flips his top he's not a friend. nothing should change in your realationship.
2006-11-26 15:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by cpewitte27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to God and ask him what to do He is the only one who can give u the right answer
2006-11-26 15:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by lovex2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him
if he likes you he will accept it
2006-11-26 15:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by tresor_41_eagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋