i've known her for nearly a yr now and we're already very close friends.i was afraid of the long summer holidays as i thought that we would stop communicating but we naturally continued to talk to each other daily when the holidays started till now,and i hope that we'll go on like this.but next yr,we're going in different classes and i'm not going to see her or talk to her as often as this yr.
i've already lost a close friend like that 3 yrs ago;when we both got in college,we found out that we wouldn't be in the same class.i thought we could make it but she got new friends and i too and we went away from each other;it was very hard.now she's only a friend like all the others for me and vice versa
but i don't want that to happen to me again;it would be like doing the same nightmare a second time;but this time she is more valuable in my eyes..i wanna stay close friends with her next yr.but how do i do??what can i do???
2006-11-26 07:17:38 · 7 answers · asked by axL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Some people come into our lives, leave imprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.
It's up to us to realize that not everyone is meant to be in our lives forever. Learn what it is that you were supposed to learn from that person while they were in your life. And remember, if you were blessed to have 2 wonderful friends, you will be blessed with more.
Enjoy them while they're there, and trust that they aren't the last.
2006-11-26 07:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by CarolynJayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might help.human beings come into your life for a reason,a Season, or a life-time.once you be responsive to which one that's for a individual,you would be responsive to what to do for that individual. while somebody is on your life for a reason, that's commonly to fulfill a desire you have expressed. they have come that may assist you thru a controversy,to provide you education and help, that may assist you bodily,emotionally,or spiritually. they might appear like a Godsend, and that they are! they're there for the rationalization you desire them to be. Then,with none incorrect doing on your section,or at an inconvenient time,this individual will say or do some thing to hold the relationship to an end. in specific circumstances they die. in specific circumstances they walk away. in specific circumstances they act up and tension you to take a stand. What we could comprehend is that our desire has been met,our desire fulfilled,their artwork is complete. The prayer you sent up has been spoke back,and now it's time to pass on. in specific circumstances human beings come into your life for a SEASON, because of the fact your turn has come to proportion,strengthen, or study. they create you an adventure of peace,or make you snort. they might instruct you some thing you have by no potential performed. they commonly provide you unbelievableamount of exhilaration. believe it! that's genuine! yet, in basic terms for a season. LIFETIME relationships instruct you lifetime training:issues you're able to construct upon with the intention to have an outstanding emotional beginning place. Yourjob is to settle for the lesson,love the guy,and positioned what you have discovered to apply in all different relationships and factors of your life.that's suggested that love is blind yet friendship is clairvoyant. with a bit of luck this might help, it helped me.
2016-12-13 14:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her everyday get her to come to ur house go out & do stuff together if yall r true friends it will last if not then its probably for the best but put forth effort to make the friendship last & if u ain't told her tell her ur scard yall want be friends any more
2006-11-26 07:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by dixie_791 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling her a lot and hang out after class, go shopping and do stuff like that and if she thinks of you as a good friend then you wont loose her.
2006-11-26 07:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by sakura7blossoms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel, and make a concerted effort to stay in contact.
Seems to me that your feelings maybe more than just platonic..
So be careful, I am sure she wants to remain in contact with you, as much as you do her.
Good luck
2006-11-26 07:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in touch via email!
2006-11-26 07:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communitcate with her more often.make plans with her to do things together. try to keep in touch as often as u can!!
2006-11-26 07:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by superstarjulia12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋