were both equally motivated and i know we will push each other to succeed. if i go to the college i want i will be like 5 hours away from him. but the school that he's going too will be a better help for me.
2006-11-26 07:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by prettylilmama89 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
STOP--S T O P!! stop right now my dear! DONT you dare do that to yourself! or to your boyfriend! You have not explored life! you have not experienced true life AT ALL! Your main objective is to get an education and thats it! DO NOT BE PLAYING HOUSE!!!! you will need to grow up a little bit and this will help you! Your House Playing Games are over and WELCOME to the real world= When you graduated and you hook up again then fine! other than that you need to study and forget about the puppy love wich now you are growing into a lady
DO not make the mistake or you will always remeber me as your counselor that told you so!
2006-11-26 07:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by gallagher g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's always a hard call. Sometimes it's better to separate and meet other people, because you're both still so young. But if you truly feel like this is who you want to be with, and that the pressures of the college lifestyle won't break the two of you up and spread you apart (which can be awkward at the same school), then I say go for it. But it all comes down to the individuals in the relationship. There really is no one clear answer.
Good luck to you both!
2006-11-26 07:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if you can reach your goals at the same school as your boyfriend. You should NEVER choose a college based on anyone else being there (best friend, silbling, boyfriend, coach, instructor, etc.). Choose the college because it works for you independent of everyone else.
2006-11-26 07:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by College Advisor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the school he's chosen offers the same quality of instruction in the area you've decided to study, then I might consider it. But remember, what you do while you're in college can determine what you do with the rest of your life, so please don't take your educaton lightly...and don't base your choice of school on where your boyfriend is going. If it's meant to be with you and him, it will be regardless of distance and time apart. Good luck.
2006-11-26 07:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Doogie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your parents about this
I think U should go to the colledge that will help you.
IF you go to the college you want then you will only be thinking about your bf.
the college wont help you and you will live to regret your decision.
2006-11-26 07:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Shaniqua 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋