but i have two kids in bed and no one too look after them and the doctor wont come out will it be ok to wait till 2moro morning too see my doctor?
its my second miscarry in 5 months i would be 7 weeks
2006-11-26 06:59:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
my partner is 2 hours away and his boss wont let him go if he does he loses his job his boss said that he dont care whats goin on and his boss is a female shockin aint it
2006-11-26 07:05:36 · update #1
if you feel you can cope till morning then stay at home but i found my miscarriage got very painful and the bleeding got very heavy.
call your doctor to make sure they are OK for you to wait till morning if not insist they come to you. it is hard when you have other kids at home doctors should understand that, i had to wait about 4hrs to see a doctor when i lost mine because the early pregnancy unit didn't open until 830 am and my own GP wouldn't come out!!! i was told there was nothing they could do to stop it if i was losing mine and to put my feet up and wait to see what happened
I'm sorry if you have lost the baby take care x x x x
i just want to say to the ppl telling her to " just take the kids " that's not going to help her she is going to have 2 very tired and scared children at the hospital, chances are she is going to be told to come back in the morning when they can scan her.most hospitals scan departments are only open during the day, it is sad that a doctor wont come out but sadly that's the way it is nowadays
2006-11-26 07:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by mum_2_many 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that I have been there...
The fact is, if you are going to miscarry, you're going to miscarry... there is nothing that can be done to stop it. At 7 weeks, everything should expell on it's own (Im sorry to be blunt) but if you are bleeding heavily-- more than 1 pad an hour, or if the cramps become stabbing or unbarable, you'll have to go to hospital. No matter what.
Lie down as much as possible and keep a phone near by in case you do need to call an ambulance.
I am so sorry for your loss.
2006-11-26 07:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by jenniw0530 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw thats so sad and such a diificult situation.
Maybe you could hold on for a few hours and then take your kids with you as soon as they wake up in the morning. I don't know I've never miscarried so I don't know how dangerous it is or anything, but if it was an emergency surely the doctor would come out andsee you?
If worst comes to worst you will just have to wake the kids.
Good luck:(
2006-11-26 07:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can wait till tommorow to go see the doctor. I had a friend who mis-carried and did not go see the doctor till a week later, she was really upset and didnt want to believe she miscarried. It is a sad situation. You have to go see the doctor though. Don't you want to know why you are miscarring. I mean that is wierd expessially after having two children already. You need to start asking question. Maybe you need to get on birth control if you don't want anymore children.
2006-11-26 07:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Im really sorry for this bad news, there are lots of different advice on here, which probably makes it a difficult one.
Ive had 2 miscarriages my first was at 11wks and I dont want to scare you but was quite painful as I started contracting, I also passed out a few times. The doctor came out to me but only pressed on my tummy and gave me pain relief. Above anything you shouldnt have to go through this on your own, please call someone to be with you its a really alful thing to go through.
Im sure youve already tried but call NHS direct they are really understanding and will tell you what you need to do and may even call a doc on your behalf.
I really hope that you dont do this alone, thoughts with you.
2006-11-26 08:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not think negative, and do not worry or stress yourself. It will only make things worse for you and your unborn.
The best thing to do is to get the children up and out of bed and take them to a relative's house, or even a neighbor if you can. Then you need to go straight to the emergency room! Your doctor may not come to you because he/she may feel that you could be exaggerating or making something out of nothing. So the best thing to do is to go to the emergency room, and have yourself looked at! You do not want to sacrifice the life of your unborn child becuase your children are sleep. If you absolutley have to, take them w/ you to the ER. Good luck!
2006-11-26 07:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not get the d&c accomplished till you have had a 2nd opinion...My drs place of work would not see sufferers who're pregnant till they're 8 or 9 weeks alongside because of the fact of that reason you're describing...If I have been you i might wait..there is not any harm in waiting somewhat longer if the sac is becoming and your tiers r becoming, now i could desire to work out if the sac didnt improve and your tiers dropped then sure it would be a miscarriage.....My cousin kinda had the prob you're hving yet she did have a miscarriag and became preg with twins and didnt recognize it till they did and her tiers lower back and located the different toddler she became approximately to have a d&c. If she might have she wouldnt have her son now..good success
2016-10-17 14:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please call your partner and call a friend ... if noone available grab a hot water bottle pop it on your tummy and lie down also make sure you have a saintary towel if he pain is bad take a paracemotol .Call your doctor again .. i had 13 please dont cry you are not alone stick a chick flick on the televisiion and make sure you have a blanket around you .. when you can you must get to the hospital .. sounds horrid but keep the saintary towels to show them
2006-11-26 07:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by sammie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry to hear that! i had one to in aprill! The doctors are crap when it comes to miscarriages! They think that because there isn't anything that can be done about it they aren't bothered! I should think that you will be ok to wait untill the morning to see a doctor though. Just try to get as much reast as you can and try not to worry! All the best.
2006-11-26 07:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by lucy c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lay down and try to put your feet up. I had 3 miscarriages before having my son and when I spotted with him I was extremely stressed out. Call your partner at work and tell him to come home. I'm sure his boss will understand.
2006-11-26 07:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋