y did i dream 2 nights ago about making out with a girl when i'm a girl? and str8 at that
2006-11-26 06:49:41 · 9 answers · asked by ~Music Fanatic~ 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
think about how much time you spend with females? i'm a girl n i have tons of dreams about me n other girls...but that doesn't make me gay because dreams are subconscious desires....maybe u r just curious...but its your actions that define you and your sexuality...good luck
2006-11-26 07:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by PrInCeSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are generally metaphors and should not be looked at in a purely literal way. So I would ask you if there is something about the girl in the dream that you want to "embrace" or something that you love about her.
And yes, it's also possible that you have some sexual feelings or at least affectionate feelings about others of your gender. Sexual preference is on a continuum and most of us who are honest have felt some sexual attraction for the same sex. For some people, same sex desire is what is most normal for them.
2006-11-26 16:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal even if you decide to act on it. *sigh* I can't stand homophobes and people ranting about gay ppl when they have no clue.
Everybody is curious, really... I can turn on 90% of so-called straight men very, very easily without putting hardly any effort at all. Only a very very very few people are 100% straight or gay most people are bisexual.
You say you're straight but that's just because it's the easiest, default answer. Everybody has a little gay to them it's just to what degree are you gay.
I wouldn't think much of this and just enjoy your dreams!
2006-11-26 14:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally think that no one is completely straight or completely gay--but homosexuality is unacceptable to most people just from their background/upbringing. But don't worry about it, it's just a dream. You might want to try having a more open mind though. I'm sure that once in your life you have been attracted to a girl.
2006-11-26 14:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
As long as it was a dream don't worry to much about it. Subconsciously you may be thinking about it or not. A person can dream anything.
2006-11-26 14:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it....perhaps it means that you actually love yourself...and love being a girl!............sometimes in a dream, it's really us....and about us......and how comfortable we are....all about us....our wishes, hopes and fears.........if there was fear....you would wake up really scared. It may be that you are comfortable with YOU!
2006-11-26 14:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
our society has done such a good job of sexualizing women that now women sexualize women as well.
don't worry. it's common among straight women.
2006-11-26 15:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be curious on your subconscious level.
2006-11-26 14:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jerrysberries 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its NORMAL. Psycologists will tell you that. Doctors will tell you that. The only time it isnt is if you act on it...
2006-11-26 14:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋