Sweeties,
as an intro: I post most my quest. here 'cause it's where I get the best replies so pl. don't ask me that anymore.
I got badly hurt and I have no respect for this individual whatsoever. I do, however, have a beautiful recollection of the day we met. All I'm asking is, is it healthy at all to cherish this in my heart because it's like a fantasy. Not real. Someone who loves you doesn't do certain things under any circumstance.
I just feel like I'm fooling myself the way I think about that one day in August 2 years ago.
It was all a lie anyway.
thanx
2006-11-26 06:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sure, he definitely got me stoned & it takes a lot of effort to recover, :)
2006-11-26 08:46:14 · update #1
No, I don't think it's wrong to enjoy the memory, even if it didn't end well. As long as you acknowledge what your feelings are to that person now, and you're not planning to take them back just because of what once happened, it can't do any harm, and it would be a shame to have to lose beautiful memories just because things changed later. Even if you now know things weren't as you thought they were then, it's nice to lose yourself in a little dream now and then, as long as it doesn't stop you moving on in your life and finding someone who truly loves you.
2006-11-26 06:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories are grand only if they do not get in the way of today and tomorrow. If you are trying to relive the past, not very healthy. I go down memory lane every so often, fun trip for a while, but has nothing to do with the reality of today. Good luck
2006-11-26 15:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back to the old STYX tune "The best of times". Remember the line. We'll take the best and forget the rest. Enjoy.
2006-11-26 14:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are stoned
2006-11-26 15:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with fantasy ...
2006-11-26 14:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should more on.....
2006-11-26 14:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋