i've got a crush on a new officemate, & i know he's got the same feeling for me, too. we often catch each other stealing meaningful glances, but i know it can't, & i won't, let go further than that. He often compliments my sexy figure, & my pretty face... & this easily gets me blushing like a teenager. One time, he stole a kiss from me and, in a moment of weakness, i kissed back. That kiss lasted for a few seconds, & it was so wild, but thank God I managed to stop him & hide my arousal. However, that kiss was enough to make me fantasize about him more & more. The quality of his kiss was so much better than my husband's, & i often catch myself masturbating & fantasizing about him. OMG i'm confessing too much! I hope my hubby won't notice this, but how can i control this forbidden attraction? Is this normal for women during the early stage of marriage? OMG! i really want to have sex with him!
2006-11-26 06:36:28 · 13 answers · asked by jenny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
kissing is cheating.
You are probably going to end up sleeping with this coworker unless you find a different job/department.
How would you feel if your husband and some sexy girl was doing this at his job?
Stop being an easy tramp and be a good wife... remember your vows you made.
2006-11-26 06:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by yo mama 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Girl, you need to get divorced ASAP. The best sex in a marriage should be the first year or two. I've been married 18 months and haven't even looked at another guy and there is no way I would ever let some guy flirt with me, kiss me, and have an affaird on my new husband. That tells me you weren't ready for marriage. You need to spare your husband as soon as possible and just get divorced, or stop messing around on him.
2016-03-29 09:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think fantasy is alright, however you better think seriously about your actions, if you should continue down this path you are definitely going to regret it. I'd say it is way too soon for you to be fantasizing about another man. If you don't feel as though you made the right decision in your marriage/mate, you should consider discussing what you and your husband can do to make your contact better and try to work through these problems together! If this doesn't work and you[ve tried everything you can to make your marriage better and more exciting (and I mean everything), then he may not be the right one for you. I question why you married him in the first place! It takes more energy than you can imagine to stay with him and make the marriage work than it does to give in and have a fling with a coworker. What if you start seeing this guy, get divorced and marry him, then have another encounter with another guy who is even better? Where will it end?
2006-11-26 07:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by equitable one 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Mrs OMG,
You are now married an this kind of behavior is not that of a married woman. If you cannot control your emotions and your sexual desires then you truly need to get a divorce; You're no good for the man you married as you have no loyalty to him ("OMG! i really want to have sex with him!"), you need to change your behavior. What in the f_ck are you trying to prove? Get a grip and quit letting your emotions and desires control you! You should be asking for forgiveness rather than advice.
2006-11-26 07:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
avoid this other person as much as possible. if you want to keep your marriage than start focusing on the reasons why you are attracted to your husband in the first place.do not kiss him or even flirt or talk to the other guy for any reason other than that directly related to your job. and if you can't do that then you need to find another job or go to counseling.
2006-11-26 06:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by awfulp 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, people in this forum are really are high on their horse....it's ok to be tempted, (Jesus was tempted in the Desert by Satan 3 times) in fact you're human, I can guaran-freaking-tee you will be tempted several times in your life, most of them probably sexual temptations, so, to your question, Yes it is normal and yes it is OK. How you respond to your temptations is a different question entirely. without going into another huge answer, talk to your husband, let him know your desires, let him know it's just a physical attraction (try to get his approval) then......make your co-worker glad he was born a man, then get back to your marriage, might add a new spice to your life that you'll really enjoy.
2006-11-26 13:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Bring your BF home and introduce him to your husband as your brother.
Then he can come over and hang out and bang you when your husband is not around.
I will be your uncle.
2006-11-27 06:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is normal. Its Ok to fantisize...it is the only way to keep your marriage going...as long as you are not out sleezing around.
2006-11-26 06:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG , you are really asking for trouble here ! and so early into the relationship! shame on you!
2006-11-26 06:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
youre marriage won't last long, but who am i, im in jr. high, how would i know
2006-11-26 06:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Peter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋