my husband said to me he has regreted marrying me because i cofronted him cheating on me.
2006-11-26 06:27:48 · 23 answers · asked by Esther K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are early in your marriage and have no children, end it now.
There is no reason to make everyone miserable for a lifetime.
If you have children keep everything as calm and even as possible. Make your plans ahead of time. Be ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN to get good representation for the sake of your child or children. If it is just you, bite the bullet, get out and start over again.
2006-11-26 06:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know it is painful for you in this difficult time,but maybe God has chosen this time for you to clearly see what the man is like and for you to move on to better your own life in the new year. I would move out with as little conflict as possible,I personally chose a time when I knew he would NOT be in town(I was married to a long haul truck driver). I packed up what I wanted to take,rented a small moving truck (like a U-haul,but wasn't that company) and moved entirely out of state,halfway across the country as a matter of fact,to a better life for myself. My children were NOT by this man,and were grown and on their own,so it was easier for me to do this than someone who has small children,but that doesn't mean a woman with small children is to stay either. I would not stay where I wasn't wanted,and where you have confronted him about cheating and he has stated this to you,it certainly does not show me that he cares for or about you,I would get out while the getting is good. There are plenty of places available to help especially in this time of year,unfortunately with it being the Holidays upon us),but contact a local Church,if you don't have your own,and ask if they can help you,if you need any financial help that is. Good luck and will be praying for you ^j^=an Angel to watch over you
2006-11-26 06:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated, and needs to say no more. Because his cheating tells you he regrets being married. He's no longer worth being with you. You deserve much more than he is able to provide.
Seek legal advice.
2006-11-26 06:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What an a**!!! He is blaming you for what he has done, and is mad because you caught him at his game. Divorce him, then maybe one day when he is all alone, he can regret the fact that he cheated on you. Good luck! :)
2006-11-26 06:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick his @$$ to the curb like the piece of trash he is! The next thing you should do is find a man who will treat you with the love and respect you so surely deserve. I know he is out there. Good Luck.
2006-11-26 07:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband regret marrying you let him go and start over
I know it sound easy to me it's not really my situation it's yours do what's right for you. but all I say is don't stay where you are not wanted.
2006-11-26 06:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a cheater and he wont change. Do your self a huge favor and get rid of him. File for a divorce as soon as possible on the grounds that he is not faithful to you.
2006-11-26 06:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Danelle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so what is the problem. Begin getting things together on moving out or having him moved out.
Not all marriages work..............sadly to say.
Why do you want a cheater for a husband ?
2006-11-26 12:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if he regrets marrying you, make him regret cheating on you! You must make him pay, leave him and take everything!!
2006-11-26 06:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by astonished 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get even. keep him on a string long enough to make his life miserable. make him file for the divorce. make him do everything that you feel you should be doing. make him do it all. then he will appreciate how hard it is to just "Move On" stick it to him girl
2006-11-26 06:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋