I feel weird whenever I see her, I feel aroused. I can't stop looking at her, her body, her face, her hair. I've taken a few pictures of her without her consent and I masturbate to them. I feel guilty after I'm done, but I can't stop feeling attracted to her. Do I need to see a shrink?
2006-11-26 06:23:47 · 23 answers · asked by nemuz_cytherean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No shrink is needed. You've just gotta stop lusting over your mother in law and respect your wife. You're probably looking at porn at times when you should be enjoying that wife of yours. And if you keep masturbating your ability to please your wife sexualy for more than 2Min's will be a shock. Ever heard of the term minute man. Hope you wise up. You are not attracted to her. Is she married? Would you be asking this question if she was? You're young aren't you? Come on dude grow up!
2006-11-26 06:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cory 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yikes!!! This is a huge problem. Stay out of her presence. Avoid being near her or in her company.
Try to dodge this bullet. If it finally appears to your wife that something is going on, tell her that your sorry but you are attracted to her mother. Please forgive you but you have to stay away from her.
You wife should be able to help you avoid her presence. If she knows why, she will be upset but she hopefully, will help you. Your wife should be able to talk to her mother about her behavior and dress around you. She should be able to encourage her to dress like a mother instead of a Trollope.
She doesn't live with you does she??? With time, self control and cold showers you should get over the attraction. GET RID OF THE PICTURES AND ACT LIKE AN ADULT.
2006-11-26 06:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem with my Mum and although it is your MIL I would recommend just letting her know that you are worried that you son is starting to get spoilt and you are running out of space for his toys etc! Ask her if she would mind helping you reinforce good habits in your son, so that like her son one day he will make a fine husband. Explain what you wanted to do (eg rewards for good behaviour) and that you want him to understand the value of things and she will probably be the best asset in helping you teach your son to mind his manners, and be good in general and it won't offend her as you have complimented her on how she raised her son!
2016-05-23 04:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the hell wrong with you, you are married to her daughter
how can you think about Jerry Springer **** when you have a wife at home that will give you the world. Think about it the shoe on the other foot your wife being in-love with your father or infatuated with him or even masturbate to his picture. I think you should seek some help.
2006-11-26 06:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should speak to a marriage counselor alone about this first to avoid hurting or pissing off your wife. Is masterbatiting to a photo worth your marriage? I doubt there is any chance of you being with you mother in law, so burn the pics and control yourself.
2006-11-26 07:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Winnie08_98 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to be rude but you really need a strong dose of reality.Don't destroy your wife's relationship with her Mom because of your own selfish destructive wants. Ask the Lord to take these feelings from you. These feelings are not from God.Satan is working full time to destroy families in anyway he can. Tell him toGOOOO.
2006-11-26 06:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep your mind away from that. Go to your wife and get fun from her. if you still can not handle this problem, go to the physician as fast as you can do before it's getting worse. I think you have Oedipus Simplex Disturbance, the psychiatric condition that need psychiatrist to cure it.
2006-11-26 06:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to see someone. Think of how much this would hurt your wife if she found out or possibly insult your mother-in-law. You could destroy quite a few relationships with that crap. Control yourself.
2006-11-26 06:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by AlwayzaLady 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, this is a serious problem. Your wife would be crushed to find this out. Get help NOW!
2006-11-26 07:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A shrink won't help, but you need to somehow get out of this.
2006-11-26 06:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋