i am not sure if one of my friends is bi or a lesbian. She gives off subtle signs like touching the side of my arm sporadically and asking how i am feeling. About a month ago, she looked deep into my eyes for a good 3 min. I dont know wheter she was "testing" me or if she was trying to tell me that she likes me. The major thing that she does is constantly stare at me (hopefully in a goood way =] Once I caught her off guard and she blushed. When I speak to her, she has this dreamy look on her face. I KNOW that these are signs of someone liking you. The problem is that we both go to an all girls school. How can i confront her. I mean what am I suppose to say, "Are u a lesbian?" point blank? There is major tension between us. I could feel a connection btwn u I dont know wheter she is a les or bi, but she never really spoke about guys and she has never had a bf but has kissed a guy. I am starting to have feelings for her...and i am at a complete loss as to what i am suppose to do Need help
2006-11-26 05:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
thats sooo cute. ya she seems bi definently.
2006-11-26 05:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a nice quiet moment and tell her that you just wanted her to know that if anything should ever happen, you would want her to always know how much she has meant to you. Say that you hope you mean that much to her too. Hold her hand when you say this. If this doesn't lead to a first kiss, she isn't bi.
2006-11-26 06:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know that you are gay? The best thing to do is talk to HER. I don't know of anyone in this forum that can help you other than yourself. Communicate directly with her. Don't make her feel uncomfortable by asking her questions she may feel funny answering. If you guys hang out enough, you will know what each other is feeling.
2006-11-26 06:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by gc27858 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Niice Yea shes bi I would know I'm 13 & about 3 of my friends or Bi So yea theres nothing wrong with it If you like her GO for it It sounds cute tah me
2006-11-26 06:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way is to get things out in the open tell her you like a guy and see what she says to that ... or if you having feelings for her just say it point blank .... im starting to get these feelings for you ... and i feel its neutral
2006-11-26 06:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by Zackinator . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is interested in you , for sure. and with your closing line you can tell that you as well are bi-curious anyway. just give it time and relax a bit on the issue. if it happens ..go with the flo....whatever is in your heart.
2006-11-26 06:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like girls and see how she reacts. Or get her in some romantic or sexy situation and see what she says or does.
2006-11-26 06:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was looking deep into your eyes for 3 minutes, then you were doing it to her as well.
Let's face it...you're hooked!
Enjoy!
2006-11-26 07:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like a guy or think he is cute and see how she responds
2006-11-26 06:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by T B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont hesitste. she loves you. if you like her too, do the first move, by kissing her.and your new life will begin.have fun.
2006-11-26 06:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by melody m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋