There was this boy in school I loved. But, he kept using me and I would always cry about it. So finally I came to a dission I didn't want to be his friend anymore. We got into an argument that made me feel bad for him. But I didn't want to fall for it 'cause then I would be his friend again and be used daily and cry. After the argument he started talking to me and being all friendly like nothing happened. But I don't want to be friends with him, yet I can't help falling for it. Should I be his friend again or keep walking away?
2006-11-26 05:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hun, just walk away. I know it's hard but it's the best thing for you so that your not hurting anymore. You have to ask yourself if you really want to have a friend like this for the rest of your life.
I have gone through some of the same things and it's not easy, I will be honest with you about that but over all it has made me a better person because now I can see who my true real friends are. I want positive friends that don't use me and support me through all my life decisions, you have to ask yourself if this is the same thing that you want.
2006-11-26 05:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really persistent, you might want to carry earpugs to use when he starts up. (; Also, stating Emphatically --esp in front of your fReal Friends-- that you wish him to leave you alone, is something he may not wish to be repeated. Tell your friends enough --in private-- so they can be supportive. The following set of articles --and those related to it-- will help you to get a deeper understandiing of what may be going on, & what you want to do about it:
Why Am I Drawn to the Wrong People?
- What Is Behind the Attraction?
- The Role of Family
- Other Influences
- The Power of Friendship
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2005/7/22a/article_01.htm
*This URL may change soon. After that, Advanced Search at http://watchtower.org/search/search_e.htm will find the new one ...
2006-11-26 06:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very open with him,and tell him if he is going to be a friend,its only friendship,and he can't use you,if not them you both should go on your way.The only reason you cry,because you do care for him,and he is hurting you ,by useing you. Being open all the way is the best thing to do.If he doesn't pay attention to you, he isn't a real friend. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-26 05:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he's "talking to you" and being "friendly" just to set you up for another one of his traps. yes, i would say he's just using you and you're definitly doing the right thing by not caving in. i know it can be hard seeing you love him but clear your mind for a second to think about why exactly DO you like him? it's not his personality.. ican it be his appearance? Just soime things to consider, hope I helped.
2006-11-26 05:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by city.of.color 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 13:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I had to deal with this same problem. Tell him to F*** off and that he needs to get a life. Tell him to leave you alone. Tell him that you have tried to many times to be his friend and that it's over. Tell him that you're sick of his BS. If that doesn't work I don't know what else will. I hope that helps.
2006-11-26 05:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by mel9992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act stupid, of course he isn't a friend. True friends don't use you like he did, friends don't make you cry. You know that it's true, so why did you even have to ask? Common Sense.
2006-11-26 05:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on walking!
2006-11-26 05:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep walking away
2006-11-26 05:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by MyLoserAlterEgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way your gunna keep being used....so i suggest DONT TALK TO HIM AT ALLL!!!!
2006-11-26 05:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ray K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋