that you have to treat a man like crap for him to respect and love you?
2006-11-26 05:36:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if he loves "crap"
2006-11-26 05:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by me 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No that's not true. I don't know who told you that or where you heard that from but if you treat a man like crap to make him respect and love you, he'll just end up dumping you like yesterday's trash in a heartbeat! He won't have any respect for you or that love you are looking for from him.
If you want your man to love and respect you then you need to show him the same respect and love. Yeah, it's cool to play hard to get sometimes to see how much he will chase after you, but enough is enough. There is a limit to everything......mutual respect and love comes from both sides. If the guy treated you like crap to get you to respect and love him, would you? Would you take his crap everyday so he would get respect and love for you? If you are like any sensible person, you'd probably dump him too. You need a man to love and respect you for who you are and if that man can't do that, then he isn't worth keeping. It isn't worth treating him like crap to make him respect and love you because it won't work. It's a lose lose situation all the way.....
So, no it is not true. Not unless you want to keep him around but if he doesnt respect or love you, dump him and move on.
2006-11-26 05:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Asia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, where in the world did you hear that from, in order to get respect you have to give respect and treat others how you would want to be treated and the right man will come along, but if you treat others like crap they will have nothing but dislike and anger towards you and you will be by yourself with no one to treat how you would like to be treated...
2006-11-26 05:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, where did you hear this rubbish from. You should respect your man as he respects you. You don't want to give him everything he wants or he will walk all over you. But you let him know what he will be missing if you left. That is how you will get a man to love you. If you phone him 10 times a day he's going to figure you are desperate and he will move on. Take it easy and let him come to you.
Good luck George.
2006-11-26 05:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who the hell gives that advice and has good results from it, If a girl likes to treat a guy that she likes as if he were crap, what is this girls issue with her personally. I personally don't think it is good practice to treat someone badly because sometimes you will go to far and chances you will bring out the side of someone you did not want to see. If someone uses the treat them likecrap and they will love you, what is the purpose "if they take all the **** you can dish out then thay are keepers" if you are into that kind of guy, then have at it
2006-11-26 05:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by 456tbj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have to treat an immature man like crap, for him to respect and love you! Someone who stopped watching cartoons. Someone who understands responcibility, security, intamacy, and romance, will just look at you weird and leave. Good Luck with the kid!
2006-11-26 05:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but he needs some level of a challenge. He has to know that he can't do whatever he wants with or without you. He has to know you are your own person and you are not there soley to serve him, but you still want him to be happy and are willing to sacrifice for him, if he is willing to sacrfice for you. Treating a guy like crap tells a guy that you are of higher value than he is, which makes you more of a catch and he will put in more effort to win you effection.
2006-11-26 05:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. In fact, if he treats you like crap get out of the relationship ASAP!
2006-11-26 06:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by evilbarrister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's true but I think that depends on the person. Most guys don't want to be treated like crap as much as to know that they can still have their own life with you in it. Give them their space but don't be mean about it. When you fall in love with that person though you will naturally find that happy median.
2006-11-26 05:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, why would u think that? if u have to treat him like crap for him to love u, then he might have been abused or something like that and is use to it.
2006-11-26 05:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if you want a man to love you, you should treat him how you want to be treated. why would he respect you if you don't show him any respect.
2006-11-26 05:39:48 · answer #11 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋