my friend is no longer a virgin and shes only 15yrs old and she drinks and im really worried what should i do?

Question

she used to be a perfect little person and then in a year she became really stupid and shes hanging out with 18yr olds and 21 yr olds and i dont know what i should do because im not like that and it bugs me and im kind of worried

Answer 1

Well, you ask yourself this, what is worth more to you. your friendship or her funeral? I think that you need to talk to your parents and tell them how concerned you are and let them approach her parents. I know you may lose a friend for a little while but if she is any kind of friend and she is smart she will realize what you did was to help her and to possibly save her from destruction to her body and life. Be a friend and talk to your parents about it. She is not going to listen to you right now so forget that idea, you need bigger sources..

Answer 2

U need to talk to her, and soon before she goes out 1 night with these older guys and become missing. Tell her that ur worried about her and show her things on Internet of what becomes of fast teens. Show her that u care about her and that even though she may think those guys r just friends she is only 15 and she could get pregnant or molested. If she wont listen then u need to tell an adult or counseler and try to stay away 4rm her when she gets drunk.

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear this but your best bet is to stop hanging with her.Before she ends up bringing u down with her.I know u have heard the saying that u are the company u keep.Well if u keep hangin with her u are taking a big chance.I think makeing sure that your life isn't ruin is more important then your friend.Good luck

Answer 4

Usually when something like that happens it is cause there is something wrong in her life. Could be something or at home or she is just wanting the attention. The best thing to do is talk to her and see what is going on.

Answer 5

I'M SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR FRIEND HONEY.I KNOW IT'S HARD TO SEE HER ON A SELF-DESTRUCT PATTERN.I WAS JUST LIKE HER FOR SO MANY YEARS.THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS BE THERE FOR HER WHEN SHE NEEDS YOU OR GIVE UP ON HER COMPLETELY THERE IS NO IN BETWEEN.I'M HERE IF YOU WANT TO TALK OR IF SHE DOES AND I'VE BEEN CLEAN AND SOBER FOR ALMOST 6 YEARS.MAYBE SHE'LL WAKE UP AND START LIVING AND COME AROUND AGAIN.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!

Answer 6

Talk to her and try to find out what is the problem ,may be her parents are fighting and that affected her ,and then try to help her even if by talking ,if she didn't listen to you ,you should leave her then, b/c this kind of people don't deserve any friends ,they will hurt them sooner or later.

Answer 7

as much as u wud like to help her it's very difficult if she has chosen this path. try talking to her if the turns a deaf ear then don't worry it won't be long before she comes back to u 4 help.
Gd luck though

Answer 8

you really cant stop her, because if you try to be a good friend and tell her that she is doing wrong then she might not think that you are on her level, and wont talk to you anymore, so i think you dhould just scare her a little and tell her what will happen if she doesnt stop doing what she is doing!

Answer 9

as a friend you should help her build up her moral and confidence. Always be there for her try to consult her and always listen her problem. When she feels confortable surely change for better lifestyle.

Answer 10

there is very little you can do, if she keeps on going down this path you may have to look for other friends, for your own protedtion.