but he has paid
2006-11-26 05:09:06 · 28 answers · asked by hollyberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think it depends on what the trip is for, you cant tell someone not to go really. but if he does love you then nothing will happen and you have to believe that.
2006-11-26 05:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel_Son_Bonsai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if the girl wat flurts with him is more intelligent than you I would recommend you do everything you can to dissuade him. However, you should not be in a position ever to allow or disallow your boyfriend to do anything. It is always a matter of free will. He does not belong to you. It is to be hoped that he would not choose to go in the first place. That said, he has paid, so he clearly wants to go - bottom line is this - its entirely up to him and then its up to you how you react to that.
2006-11-26 05:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question i ask myself when i read this is "why is your BOYFRIEND going anywhere with another girl?" This is not right, and this is not conduct becoming of a boyfriend. I had a similar situation awhile ago, and let me tell you, the results were not pretty.........It actually led (in part) to our breaking up and a great deal of resentment from me to her. She lost all trust and credibility in my eyes, and i never trusted what she told me again (although this is because she lied to me about the trip with the guy, and then i found out much later).
No, your boyfriend should not be going anywhere with another girl......This is wrong.....
2006-11-26 05:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you trust him enough then you should let him go. But make sure that you tell that skanky biotch to keep her filthy hands off him!!! Just to make sure;) Like that old saying if you love him let him go and if they love you back they will come back to you. If you find out that anything happened break up with him even if it's just a rumor. All guys are dogs; remember that!! I hope that helps.
2006-11-26 06:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by mel9992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your boyfriend paying for another girl to go away with him and why aren't you going. Personally before you let him go that is a question that you need answers to.
I would be very annoyed if I were you and I would be wondering why I was not invited on this trip
2006-11-26 05:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has already paid, sure why not. When he gets back he probably won`t be your boyfriend anymore. It doesn`t really sound like he is anyway. Start looking for a new guy.
2006-11-26 05:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about trust. If you trust him enough and have faith that he won't do anyting, then sure. If he hasn't given any reason to make you think that he would do something with someone else, sure...i mean, everybody flirts...but what it boils down to is trust and security in your relationship. Now if he has given u reason to think that he would give in to this girl and her flirting...keep him HOME so what if he has paid!
2006-11-26 05:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by hotblkchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think tht tht wud be a very dangerous game to play.
U shud make it clear to him tht u dont want to lose him by letting him be with any girl he wants. It wud be important for u to no wat kind of relationship they have between them and also where will they sleep?
Alot of things can happen between a girl and a boy in 5 days....find out what where and why first....i u really love him and dont want to lose him but dont overdo it and act too clingy-he wont like it........its up to you now..!
Good Luck!
also-dont act lyk you dont trust him-he wont like it. Remember trust is one of the most important things in a relationship!
2006-11-26 05:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to be rude but what do you mean by 'let' him, he has a right to go where ever he wants to go, you can then decide whether you want to stay with him or not if he goes. you can tell someone what to do and not do, its not fair and its not healty for a relationship. relationships should be built on trust, if you dont trust him to go away with this girl then why are you with hm. if he goes away and ends up with her then you are bettter ff without hm and its best you realise it before you marry him.
2006-11-26 05:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jumble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have any respect for yourself, give him an ultimatum-4-5 days with her or the rest of your life without me.
2006-11-26 05:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by breedgemh_101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋