I go to work, college and raise my son all on my own. My parents dont give me money or any help and honestly I rather they stay out of my life. My mom caused me and my last bf the one I had my son with to break up. She never wanted to make things easy for us. If it had not been for her we would still be together now. My mom can feel how she wants but I will allways feel my way. Just bc I live at home dont mean I have to listen to her I am adult not a baby. I mean really come on does she expect me to date a guy for 3 yrs and do something sexually if she does she is dreaming. So b4 you start to judge me make sure you have all the facts.
2006-11-26 05:04:29 · 4 answers · asked by Lauren M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
95% of the people I've met here were nice...only about 5% were not nice. Some of the categories tend to attract the 'juvenile delinquents' more than others though.
2006-11-26 05:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not here to judge anyone, but isnt that what you did with your question? i am not a nasty person, many people have attested to that fact, first your boyfriend shouldnt really have ever been run off by your mom. if he loves you and your child he will try to combat all odd. secondly if your in your mothers home then you should follow reasonable ground rules. you would expect no less from your son or daughter when your older. it is all a matter of respect, I am certain that your mother did realise that things would develope betwen you and your boyfriend after so long. perhaps it may even be her fault you fell pregnant had you been able to talk with her and discuss things like a mature sensible young woman she may have realised she couldnt stop you but could prevent you from becomming pregnant at such a young age or until you were stable enough to provide for a child. I think she resents the fact that you fell pregnant rather than had any sort of illicit love. as opposed to fighting with her try to enlist her help in bringing up the baby with you. tell her you need help, most mothers will respond to their young in need. instead of facing eachother down and getting into a p*ssing contest. try to look at her views then ask her what she would do in your shoes. she will realise your asking for her help and respond in a less aggressive manor. who knows if she thinks you have matured enough to include her then she may even begin to tolerate your fella.
2006-11-26 13:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to hate me for this, I am sorry, but you asked a question. You got answers. I think all of the answers were honest, straight from the heart answers. I read ALL of the answers. (so far) Mothers rule the roost under her roof--and with her children. If you want your mother to butt out then move under your own roof. It might take you longer with college but you can rule your own roost. You can sleep with whoever you wish and whenever you wish. (putting it bluntly) You will still be her child but she will not know as much of your business. Who takes care of your child while you attend college? Who furnishes you food? Who furnishes you a roof over your head? Who pays for the heating bill in the winter? It is hard but you need to consider all of these issues. I am sorry to be so blunt, but as I said, you asked the question. You do not always get positive answers--but you need to consider the answers you did get. Good Luck.
2006-11-26 13:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that if it is your house it would be your rules, but it is not, it is your parents, so their rules. What you might think about is getting your place on your own.or if you pay rent then you have renters rights, other than that sorry but that's life
2006-11-26 14:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋