2006-11-26 05:03:28 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats a hard one, does she call you at all, if she calls on a regular basis now I say give it a try.....but if she rarely calls and if your bday was just a little bit ago dont call.
2006-11-26 05:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie 1985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, as long as he has the best of both worlds - nothing will change. It is time for your to end this and move on with your life. He is unavailable to you. It will be difficult, and he will probably try to hang on, but you have to be strong and end it. Otherwise, you will stay stuck feeling the way you are right now. You deserve better that that. You deserve someone who can put you first not second. A phone call a day - occasionally and hour or so together - is that what you want a relationship to be? Be strong and do what is right for you. Good Luck.
2016-05-23 04:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the call but make it short, sweet and focused on wishing her a happy birthday. Don't mention or get into the separation or other issues.
Alley
2006-11-26 05:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by alleymarziacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her and tell her happy birthday, just tell her how you really feel if your only separated there is a chance you would get back together and i wouldnt want it to be somthing she would try to hold against you if you didnt.. And if you want to get back together it would be a good way to show it..
2006-11-26 05:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
I think you still care and love her thats why you are wondering to call her on her Bday even she didnt wished you on your Bday.
I should also suggest to send her flowers and a gift and try to meet her and try to solve the differences between both of you.It just a matter of clarification and adjustments and i am positive you two might be together very soon as my idea will click.
2006-11-26 09:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by hard_2forget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Even if it's only a courtesy call, it's nice. If you have intentions of getting back together it will be especially nice. Send her a text if you don't want to talk. That may bring a smile to her face.
2006-11-26 05:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do want to stoop down to such a level? I would suggest you do call and wish her on her birthday and in fact that will make a bigger impact on her then if you did not.
2006-11-26 05:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by livingonthinice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly! You clearly miss her. I'm happily married and almost forgot my wife's Bday. Start with the call.
2006-11-26 06:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Cory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you call her???? You're separated now - she won't want to hear from you! Move on and stop trying to stay in her life
2006-11-26 07:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you obviously should... you are clearly thinking of her, and there is no reason to hide that.
it should never be a battle of 'she didn't so i won't"..... you have to live with yourself at the end of the day, and should be true to your feelings every moment. even if that simply means calling your wife on her birthday to let her know that you are happy she is alive. :)
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2006-11-26 05:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋