I have a friend who said that she can't wait to get marry. She decided she's going to get marry to any guy who's willing to marry her and she doesn't believe in sex before marriage, so she's pretty much a virgin. We're only seniors in high school; how can she say that when her life barely even started? Should I talk her out of it or support her decision?
2006-11-26 04:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by Callie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like she's just talking and dreaming. I don't think she's really serious about this.
When there's a man that comes and eventually asks her to marry him, it'll hit her...
Marriage isn't just a picnic in the park. lol.
2006-11-26 04:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your immature little baby girlfriend should be the one asking this question. She is so dumb and naive it is not funny. I at 21 thought i was ready for marriage. I had know idea what a pain in the *ss marriage was to the wrong person. Yes divorced after 5 yrs.
She needs to get her sh*t together and grow up or her adult years are going to be filled with pain and heart break.
2006-11-26 12:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely talk her out of it..she's not mature enough to realize that marriage isn't just a wedding ceremony, honeymoon, and great sex...it's a big complex responsibility that she needs to be prepared for. Tell her that whenever she gets married, this would mean that she'd be spending the rest of her life that way, so what's the harm of gaining a few more years of single life, enjoying her youth, her freedom...
2006-11-26 12:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk her out of it! At least the self destructive attitude she is showing. Sure, it's wonderful to be married. At least I think so. But to marry the first guy who pops the question.... She is in for a big fall! Mistakes at a young age may seem trivial, but in reality, those mistakes which will follow you for the rest of your life are far from trivial. Your a good friend. good luck on trying to talk sense into her.
2006-11-26 12:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not an easy thing in has is up and down and sometimes in put u through some mental strain and if u not mature about it it can turn out to be a disastor.....
Atleast she believe marriage before sex.....
2006-11-26 12:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not even bother answering this question as no normal guy in his right senses would even contemplate marrying her at this stage.
2006-11-26 13:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by livingonthinice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will talk herself out of it eventually but you must help to put her off the idea.
2006-11-26 12:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage isnt all its cracked up to be. talk her out of it
2006-11-26 12:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by MsJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aileen,
talk to her. she is too young!!!!
2006-11-26 13:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋