I think he's confused as to what to do with me. He's 37 but I think he's used to his past girlfriends doing all the work. He's a bad kisser, and bad lover. He gets frustrated when he can't keep an erection as well. How can I help him. Should I show him porn so he can learn. I don't want to tell him myself.
2006-11-26 04:38:53 · 19 answers · asked by Tammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What ever you do dont show him porn...
2006-11-26 04:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one way, but I think you should talk him through it and see what happens. Just tell him that you want to try something different. You make the first move and take control from there. Maybe he'll learn something. Also if you are engaged you should be able to talk about anything. Before you say "I DO" you'd better get this worked out or you;ll have more trouble on your hands in the future.
2006-11-26 09:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn might embarrass him.
If you are going to spend the rest of your life with this man, you better start experimenting with the testing now.
Make a romantic game out of it! Teach him how to kiss, and if he likes it he will try even harder.
As for the erection, do you mean he is quick? If this is the case slow down, and do some longer fore play.
You are the only one who knows what you like, so only you can teach him, or visa versa.
2006-11-26 04:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the answer,,if he's bad now,,it will only get worse,,,you can try watching some porn,,,but as the saying goes "a good lover is born,not made"!
2006-11-26 04:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen the the new yorker guy. you may just very well have to show him, or tell him how to work with you. maybe you should watch a few porns with him. also, if he cant keep an erection, he may have Erectile Dysfunction. ask his doctor about it. either that, or hire a sex therapist.
2006-11-26 04:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by acampion2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if your not going to tell him what it is that YOU need to be satisfied, you are never going to be satisfied. Every woman is different and showing him some porn isn't going to show him what you need. What you don't want to do is put him down, if you do that he is going to have even more problems staying erect and performing. You don't necessarily have to "tell" him, but you could guide him.
2006-11-26 04:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you want it. Start him off with a little head and everything else will work itself out. Communicate that's what you are in a relationship for.
2006-11-26 04:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by terence w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show him porn because he'll have unrealistic expectation. Just show him the light yourself, but be subtle about it because the male ego is fragile.
2006-11-26 04:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by romeo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both need some serious foreplay action, porn is not the answer.
2006-11-26 04:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get that man some Viagra ...show him how u want it...if that doesnt work tell him to keep it moving !!
Always keeping it real
2006-11-26 04:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by ms.yahoo answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him that he sucks. Instead say, 'this is the way I like it' and then tell him just how you like it. If he is not interested in doing it your way, there are lots of guys out there who are more than willing.
2006-11-26 04:41:34 · answer #11 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋