i think i am being to pushy with my best guy friend cuz like i want to go out with him but he doesnt and his excuse is that he is a senior and i am a freshman but i dont know and now i think i am bugging him i think he is trying to pull away from our friendship while i am holding on tighter than ever i dont want to lose him he is a good friend what should i do?
2006-11-26 04:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by courtney.n.sharp@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your guy his a senior and you are only a freshman. This guy is growing up and soon, he'll be going to college. I think you should let him be because your too young for dating a senior. I know he's only a senior, but at that age, they are mature and soon going off to college and leaving you behind because he needs to find some girls his age. Date men your age and start new. You can always be his BEST FRIEND but your young and your friend is begining adulthood.
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2006-11-26 04:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by lizarose2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear I need boy advice fast! This is not an easy issue since the boy does not have a cell phone or a myspace. However, does he have an email or even a computer? Perhaps you could talk to him at school, eat lunch with him and all, and hint around about how to talk to him besides school. Does that makes sense? If he likes you, he'll ask you out. I know that is cliche and you will most likely roll your eyes when you read this but if he likes you too be patient. Talk to him at school and the two of you can figure out the rest.
2016-05-23 04:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hold on to him too tight because you will definatly end up losing him. If he just wants to be friends accept that and don't be pushy with him. Maybe spending less time with him will let him breathe a bit and make him realise what he's missing out on.
2006-11-26 04:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality check, you are being pushy. If it is meant to be, it will happen. If not, be happy you have him as a friend. That can even come to an end if you don't stop bugging him
2006-11-26 04:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you don't need to be his girlfriend. Even though he's a senior, he is still probably more immature relationship wise than you in some ways so just be friends or even friends with benefits. I've been there.
2006-11-26 04:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by daniel g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, just stop bugging him and give him some space. since you say he's your bbf then if you go out it will ruin your relationship with him. dont push it just wait, but mabie god wanted you two to meet and be friends and nothing more.
2006-11-26 04:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by bekka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push...your scaring him away...sorry to say..he is smart the age gap is too big..give him space and after awhile you can go back to be friends only hopefully
2006-11-26 04:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by mojogirl127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has told you he doesn't want to date you then leave him alone. If you keep on he will not even want to be your friend.
2006-11-26 04:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more u cling to him the faster he will distance himself from u
2006-11-26 04:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants some space
2006-11-26 04:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋