I feel like I have no control over what I do because of my hormones. :( I see all these questions about kids acitng like total snobs and people always answer "Oh, it's just puberty." That makes me feel like I don't have any control over myself. I really don't want to be a snob...
2006-11-26 03:11:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hormones is an excuse.. being a snob has nothing to do with hormones....
(hormones make a kid feel a need to be more sexual perhaps but you still have a brain and can make choices)
what makes you a snob or not.. is more peer pressure and if you decide to give into it or not...
adolesence is a problem becuase you are not quite an adult and are not a kid either.. sometmes you behave like one but are treated like the other.. when really you are neither...good luck - just be smart - find something you beleive in and stick to that.. write a goal for yourself, what do you need to do to get that goal... and if you find yourself going astray read your goal over and over
eg. GOAL - to go to VET COLLEGE., what you need to do: GEt good grades, save $ for College.... ok so obviously going out drinking and partying every night isnt going to get you your goal.. so you would be better to study and save $$ or what ever...
2006-11-26 03:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it
you have total control over yourself and sounds like you need to realize it pretty quick before someone sees your vulnerability, theres alot of predators out there dont be a victim, we all are many times but thats life as long as your trying to respect yourself and demand respect from others is what counts, also remember God gave humans free will so when you think people are deliberately doing things to you and you think to yourself what did I do, or Why? its not necessarily you its them. You'll be ok just portray whatever attitude that is honastly you thats best. Lessons in life are only learned thru experiences and trial and error so the more you hold back the longer its gonna take and the harder it will be so jump into life just be careful and use common sense Good Luck KIMBUR
2006-11-26 03:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just get in really bad moods weird moods and anything else you can't expect. But if you are worrying about being a snob, you won't become one just because of puberty. You CAN control that . . . yes sometimes you might be rude or "snappish", but thats judst your mood and it will always be changing and you will get used to it. But try hard and you will be as pleasant as humanly possible while in a bad mood!
2006-11-26 07:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let hormones control you. Just pretend you're the same as you've always be. Believe me, there will be some days when you'll feel totally out of it or you just won't know how you feel, but don't let it get you. In the end, you'll still be your same old self.
2006-11-26 03:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsouthernsally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have more control over yourself then you think. Yes there will be days you feel like screaming or being difficult but overall you are who you are. Don't let other people make you think that just because you're a teenager you must be difficult.
2006-11-26 03:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have as much control over yourself as you decide to have. Just because teenagers have crazy hormones doesnt mean theyre allowed to act however they feel like acting. It just makes you have to pay attention to act right no matter what.
DOnt stress it.
2006-11-26 03:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, take things easy as 1-2-3. Live life beautifully, not arrogant and ignorant (Snobbish). Don't let your friends bring you down, stay with good hearted and spirited people around you. Make life yours, easy.
2006-11-26 03:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Maji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid, just have fun
2006-11-26 03:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋