well what i mean by that right now it seems as i have been droped like a bad habbit by a few people in my life it saddens me to know that the people i thought would always be there have just went on to new people new friends they are still there but things are not the same i know in life as we grow older people tend to go there own ways w families but it just doesnt seem fair.
2006-11-26 03:04:04 · 12 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
*That is just life sweetie, just keep your head up and new people will enter your life better than before.*
2006-11-26 03:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well angel i know ur not one but anyway the reason why people come and go is becouse its the fact of life people who u think were there arnt there anymore becouse god intened them to make an apperance and leave. Alot of times as we grow older we tend to go are seperate ways becouse we need to make a change meaning we cant always do what we used to do like hanging out at bar clubs or just chill in the house we need to one day just go and leave it behind so that we can move on to are own familys. One thing to have u heard this qoute You are who u hang around? Sometimes you have friends that arnt going anywere and you tend to want to just do what they do and do nothing insted of doing what u need to do like school and work cuz u know a few of are friends are like that and we dont even talk to them. But if ur stronger then them u will see that u what more in life then to just sit at home and just hangout with friends. or go to clubs and basicly have no life and just have mommy or daddy or a baby daddy support u thats not cool all u are doing it setting a bad example. I hope im makeing sence also life is not fair and we all know that. those people who came and went were supposed to becouse they werent supposed to be in ur life tell the end even if it hurts u just have to let go. we all live to learn.
2006-11-26 15:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Folks come in and out of our lives constantly. When one moves or changes jobs, one meets a whole new group of people. Even if one stays at the same job, turnover of employees results in one meeting a number of new people. We all are always changing. I understand that you do not feel that this is fair. A lot of what we think is fair is not what happens in this world. Try to concentrate on the present for that is all we have.
2006-11-26 11:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person you meet has a significant impact on your life, even if you don't know it at the time. When they leave and move on, it makes you a stronger person, though you may not think so at the time. You are who you are and what you are by the ones you meet in life.
Remember, life is full if changes. It is only what you make of it. It is up to you to keep people there to the best of your ability!
2006-11-26 11:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep the ones you really care + love, you should be dedicated and caring to them first! It is in vain if you cry after they are gone you know...? However ppl just have to leave you no matter how much you're good to them because as you wrote, they have to move on their own ways...It's not just them who do that, you do it too! Everybody in this planet is lonely. We are born alone and we die alone. We go our ways and make our lives. So don't be too sensitive on that, the best way I suggest is to just accept it. It has happened before, it is happening now, and it will keep happening. Chill!
2006-11-26 11:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by lunilight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand how you feel. I have come to the conclusion that we are in their lives for a reason. I've been hurt by 'best' friends. In my case, they were jealous of my happiness. Love is not hatred nor jealousy, so I simply pray for these people. You are not a bad person and neither are they. You are special and a strong person.
2006-11-26 11:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by wasabi68girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change and grow apart with age. Its not tiring to be mean its just the way of the world . when we are at different stages we have different friend. like in high school as compared to college or our first job new states etc
2006-11-26 11:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel, it's called life. People will come into yours and leave as they came in, but there are reasons for their coming and leaving. Remember that the most important person never to lose is YOU! As long as you have yourself, you'll be fine. Don't lose yourself and the rest will fall in place.
What's your native language? There are numerous groups ofre the various languages in CA/US. Go to google and type in meet up geoups for.... whatever you want and start mingling, make your friendship circle bigger.
Good luck!
2006-11-26 11:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Minina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't fair. Life sucks and then you die. Get over it! People change and people move on.
2006-11-26 11:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buts thats life u have to face that,,,,
i have said these words many times to many people,,just look and understand
" never be content with someone elses definition of u,,, instead define urself by ur own beliefs, ur own truths,, your own understanding of who u are"
SO JUST BE TRUE TO URSELF, DONT LET UR CONFIDENCE COME DOWN,,,
AND MIND U DONT CHANGE COZ SUDDEN CHANGES R NEVER APPRECIATED....
SO KEEP MOVING DONT WORRY,,, EVERYTHING WILL BE BACK WITH COLORES TO U
BYE AND TAKE CARE
2006-11-26 11:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by Hitesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋