2006-11-26 02:57:54 · 13 answers · asked by tina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, men dont think like women. We spend way too much time thinking about our problems. Men would rather be done and over with it. If they cant fix it immediately they would rather forget about it. If they cant fix it sometimes they get the notioned they failed you or the situation. We women know how bad we take failure. I think this is just the way they deal with it, and it may just be our opportunity to show that we love them by just offering them a solution and a way to get on with things. AND THEY CAN STOP SULKING and we are happier.
2006-11-26 03:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by jesswonderin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Bina,
Its bcos of the male dominated society wch is still prevailing in India. It is nt their fault. They r told from the beginning dat they r correct & gals should mk all compromises & totally responsible 4 household affairs. Men r supposed 2 luk at outdoor stuff.
Its nt fault wth husbands.
These days thngs r changing & i believe if there is real good understanding b/n couple then they can sit for a while & discuss it. If hubby doesnt initiate U can always start d topic afterall its ur own house & its u who cn settle it better.
GO FORWARD & TRY 2 DISCUSS. ALL THE BEST
2006-11-27 00:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 1 i dont think most educated and broad minded guys do that. I think it happens MOSTLY amongst men who are not broadminded enough to consider women equal to them. So when a woman comes up with an argument which is difficult to counter...the only thing they can do is sulk. Its like the last weapon they have.
...er.... hahaha....i think its the male counterpart of the ultimate female weapon....crying.
2006-11-26 11:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by tornjeansandguitar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because oftentimes we nag and accuse, instead of talking it over like two mature adults. A good conversation occurs only when both parties are in the right "mood". So speak gently and in a conversational manner not in a "war-freak" manner.
2006-11-26 11:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew the way to get my husband to participate in a discussion, I'd be a rich woman (because I'd sell my secret to all the other women in the world)!!!
2006-11-26 11:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men r like children in many ways if they don't get there way they sulk and ignore woman , they want us to come and say sorry to them coz that's how their mommy thought them , mine is sulking right now !
2006-11-26 12:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because you analyze everything, and bring up every excruciating detail, and almost anything we say is wrong, and just get you into more trouble. I would rather go to the dentist than have “a talk” with my wife.
2006-11-26 11:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men hav dis tendency dat if sum1 is talkin 2 them it has only 2 reasons..1 is dat he/she wants a solution or else da second reason is blaming him.. dats y wen eva a woman wants 2 talk which makes her feel better n resolve her problems.. da man wud think she's blamin me 4 this..n tend 2 run away frm da situation
2006-11-26 11:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by m wat i m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want confrontations. They like Status Quo.
2006-11-26 11:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why they do, but they do!!!! OMG - mine goes into the bedroom for the night and pouts. Sickening!
2006-11-26 11:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋