My girl friend scolded and adviced me yesterday saying i am extravagent buying expensive mobile phones every 3 or 4months, dvd and new lap tops.. but i hate this craze.. she asked me to save some money to build a new house and a part of income for charity purpose.. for the sick , orphens and aged people. she keep a small portion of her income for them when she see any sick or people on the way she stay and talk to them and buy food for them..if she doesnt has money she will borrow from me. ofcourse she is very loving but i feel i want a girl someone who is more sexy. who is very modern ... i asked her to go but she is not ready to leave me..she says it hurts.. i am her first love... she is not ready to find new man because she gave herself to me some days... but i really want someone who is more good than this girl?? Should i dump her? she is not beautiful to look
2006-11-26 02:34:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Be honest and let her know you are looking for a girl that acts like a hooker. Maybe she will change just for you.
Coach
2006-11-26 02:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with your gf, then that might be a reason to leave. Her not being sexy or modern is a lame excuse... period.
You started going out with her for a reason - if those feelings are gone then that's a good reason. Want to try to save the relationship? Christmas is coming, buy her a day at a salon to get gussied up, buy her what you would think off as 'sexy' clothes (keeping in mind that if you go over board she may not wear them...) Want her to be modern? Take her out for the evening to an event that you consider modern.
As for her beliefs - there should be more people like her. You don't have to follow her beliefs but they are her choice and come part and package with going out with her. Trying to save money is never a bad idea, whether it's for you or for charity.
Think hard and make your decision - just don't break up the week before Christmas - that would just suck!
Good luck!
2006-11-26 02:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all looks should not matter,
if you love her that would not be an issue.
Maybe you are ready to spice up your life with some girl who is very out going crowd pleaser, but are you ready to give up you traditional honey.
With the world the way it is now adays everyone wants newer and better, you have upgraded you life with all you knew fancy toys, and now you want to upgrade your gf.
my advice is go ahead but you may be missing out on what you really want. Its easy to go and find some slutty thing on the streets or in a bar, but what your girlfriend has offered you or even shown you is a way better gift in itself.
You also had said that "but i really want someone who is more good than this girl??"
how can you not think your girl is good, your girlfriend does nothing but good. She takes the time and effort in to people who usually get turned away by everyone else. She could almost be classified as a saint and you want to throw her away for newer and better what..... piece of @$$
you are being inconsiderate. Think about what you a doing because you leave her and find someone else, just to realize you left what you wanted all along, you might now get back what you left.
2006-11-26 02:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by candace l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you are incompatible and have very different needs. Let her go & find someone who is more attuned to her. It will hurt her less in the long run if you seperate sooner than later.
If you can afford new toys and they make you happy, then it's your business how you spend your money. Since her priority are her charitable acts, she should make it her habit to set aside more so she doesn't have to borrow from anyone to support her habits.
Finally, you may find someone else who is more sexy and modern. Unfortunately, that person will have the same needs that you do and could very well move on to someone who is sexier and more modern than you.
2006-11-26 02:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Taffy Saltwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of guy are you, she should be he one dumping you! I think shes the one who needs a better man. Just because she is not all that "sexy" does not mean u have to be an ***. Ur mean and seem very immature. She sounds to have more morals then...U dont even know how to type and talk so what will a sexy girl do with you? I hope she leaves u and u are left with nobody just like u want her to be. P.S who says u are "beautiful to look"
2006-11-26 02:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not fair, son. If you knew that girl wasn't sexy - you shouldn't have fallen for her in the first place. You allowed yourself to be into her and now you want to leave - if she depends on you so much, it's not advisable to dump her - remember most girls you feel are sexy may reject you for similar reasons.
I understand you may be getting bored of her at present - just be off for a while and take a break - once you need affection inyour life again - you will want to go to her. Trust me, once in bed - beauty doesn't matter at all - such is the nature of male sexual needs.
But do not try casual flings it may ruin everybody concerned.
2006-11-26 02:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by quilm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump her and go live under a rock! let her find a man who is worth her time and move on. Superficial people like you need to go live on the moon or somethingi swear. there is more to life than the next new gadget, and you are missing out on some very fulfilling things if that is all you care about. I hope you find someone who is just as shallow as you, and then you will realize what a gem your gf was and spend the rest of your life miserable.
2006-11-26 02:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Donna L 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well she would be better off without you. It sounds like you just want someone good in bed and beautiful. One thing your not ready for a commitment. You have some living to do.
2006-11-26 03:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly your not all that .. and the reason you are not dumped already is because she is probably to nice..
you should not be buying these things that often not with the state of the world as it is .. do you recycle these electronic items??? sell them or just chuck them??? I personally think your a wanker.. and yes you should bump her cause she is too good for you...
oh and learn proper English.. I think with all those devices your brains have been warped.
2006-11-26 02:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should leave her. It seems like she does not posess the qualities you desire in a girlfriend. Nor do you share many of the same values as she does.
You deserve a girlfriend who you find attractive, and she deserves a man who will find her attractive and share her beliefs.
She may be a fine, upstanding woman - but she does not sound like the right woman for you.
Of course, be kind to her when you initiate the break-up. She obviously is deserving of you care and respect.
2006-11-26 02:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Come on.....did she look sexy when you took what she gave you a few days ago? And if she has been around long enough to see your spending habits for the last few months, and you are just now getting annoyed maybe you should take a look at yourself.
2006-11-26 02:42:27 · answer #11 · answered by JKS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋