My girl friend scolded and adviced me yesterday saying i am extravagent buying expensive mobile phones every 3 or 4months, dvd and new lap tops.. but i hate this craze.. she asked me to save some money to build a new house and a part of income for charity purpose.. for the sick , orphens and aged people. she keep a small portion of her income for them when she see any sick or people on the way she stay and talk to them and buy food for them..if she doesnt has money she will borrow from me. ofcourse she is very loving but i feel i want a girl someone who is more sexy. who is very modern ... i asked her to go but she is not ready to leave me..she says it hurts.. i am her first love... she is not ready to find new man because she gave herself to me some days... but i really want someone who is more good than this girl?? Should i dump her? she is not beautiful to look
2006-11-26 02:20:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All that info and non of it really maters. The question is whether or not you love her. If you do stay if not don't. Life is to short to spend it putting it off.
2006-11-26 02:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Guitarpix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with your gf, then that might be a reason to leave. Her not being sexy or modern is a lame excuse... period. You started going out with her for a reason - if those feelings are gone then that's a good reason. Want to try to save the relationship? Christmas is coming, buy her a day at a salon to get gussied up, buy her what you would think off as 'sexy' clothes (keeping in mind that if you go over board she may not wear them...) Want her to be modern? Take her out for the evening to an event that you consider modern. As for her beliefs - there should be more people like her. You don't have to follow her beliefs but they are her choice and come part and package with going out with her. Trying to save money is never a bad idea, whether it's for you or for charity. Think hard and make your decision - just don't break up the week before Christmas - that would just suck! Good luck!
2016-05-23 04:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the word "FOOL!"
I want you to go in the bathroom and look closely in the mirror.
You will have before you a very good picture of one.
You have a very loving and caring woman who loves you very much and all you can think about is you want something sexy.
Be careful what you ask for because what you will get will pay you back for your foolishness.
Very pretty and Sexy woman are often high maintenance. They are use to getting everything they want before they want it and you will have to compete with that.
If you find one willing to go with a fool bring her in that bathroom and look in that mirror again. There is a better than 50% chance there will only be one person you see that will love you. And it won't be her.
A sexy and modern woman is like candy. It sure looks good but it is not always very good for you. You are about to give up what truly matters in this world for a dream. The woman you have...while she may not look cute.....is priceless. She has a heart as big as all out doors. And guess what. You dump her and she will have someone else a long time before you do.
On second thought you should dump her. You don't deserve her. Give her to someone that does.
As I said go look in that mirror. This may be the last time you see a relatively happy fool.
2006-11-26 02:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love her then you are doing her no favors by keeping her around. Find someone who likes to spend their money the way you do. There are pleny of girls around who would rather spend the money all on their looks. It' a hundred or more to get your hair bleached these days, fifty or more for false nails, purses, over a hundred. You might find someone like that if you go to the mall. Make sure she has a good paying job though and isn't still living with mommy and daddy. Anyone can look like a beauty queen when they don't have to pay rent.
2006-11-26 02:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't love you either, i don't see how she could. She is just blinded because you are her 'first love' You need to break up with her if you no longer feel the same way you once did. Tell her that YOU are leaving, and she will eventually get over it, and find a different guy. It will take a while (i know cause it happened to me) but she WILL get over it. And you can find the girl you want. Breaking up will be best for both of you.
2006-11-26 02:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you are lucky to have such a beautiful person. Beauty on the outside is nice to look at but that's as far as it goes. Ask yourself why you picked this girl in the first place, you must have seen something in her. Whats on the inside is much more important then being beautiful to look at. Your girlfriend sound like she has a good head on her shoulders, she's looking and saving for the future. If everyone was as generous and helpful to others as your girlfriend is this messed up world would be a much nicer place to live in. I think you have found yourself one of the few people left in the world with compassion for others. You would be a fool to give that up for a pretty face to look at.
2006-11-26 04:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by paulamcneil1223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you would want to break up with this girl. So what if she's not the most beautiful girl? You knew that even before you started dating her. I think it would be very mean for you to now just break up with her. And she's a very good person. You should actually strive to be more like her. You don't want the modern girls. Most of them are snobby, stuck up, and just care about materialistic things. If I were you, I'd stick to this girl. She has a good heart and that's the most important thing for a person to have, in my opinion.
2006-11-26 02:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should leave her, she deserves so much more than being with you! Since she has not got the courage to leave you, you should help her by gently telling her that you don´t love her anymore. I am sure you are not very good looking either since you obviously could not get an attractive girl, but you seem to be so full of yourself.
2006-11-26 02:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat ur gonna leave a nice girl that isnt selffish and very kind for a sexier girl??? look man u got to get ur priorities straight do u really want to marry a sexy girl or a normal girl... i have experience wit alot of girls n the truth is its hard to find a sexy girl thats nice and not selfish... and if there is a girl like that chances are they are gonna be pretty bad... plus with modern girls they'll take every penny u make n they buy new phones and u would be left broke.... so my advice is that u stick with the girl that u have.. oviously she is nice to u. and its good that she is advicein you it means that she actually likes you.. plus u cant eat beauty like y go for a girl just for beauty.. so my advice is to stick with her.
2006-11-26 02:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by OutLawZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no one can tell you what to do they can tell you ther oppinions but what you need to do is be sure this is what you want there has to be somethign you liked about her or you wouldnt of went out with her in the first place would you? just be sure this is what you want. and if it is be gentle and tell her you feel that you guys are headed 2 seperate ways and you think its best to end the relationship. she of corse wont like you ending the relationship she may cry or even be mad but if you really want out you have to be the one to get out. and i think you know what you want in a girl so just go with what you know is right for you. and please remember you might get a chic who is alot more to look at but you might not always get a chic thats as nice and as good of a person as the one you are with now. im not saying not to go for looks cause everyone should be attracted to there partner, but just becarefull not to end up with a major bit** k good luck to ya
2006-11-26 02:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋