my ex husband and i have been divorced for 6 years and i am remarried but i cant seem to get over with my ex husband.please help me!!
2006-11-26 01:35:12 · 13 answers · asked by patti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2016-05-05 16:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really give a good answer without more info. Perhaps he wasn't as bad as you made him out to be.
I dunno, did you leave him, thinking the grass was greener, only to find out that if you had just worked on the problems that your marriage would have been great?
Or, perhaps you are just in love with the idea of having succeeded with him?
Or, perhaps you don't feel that relationship was ever closed, you never got closure, still have unanswered questions, or some other open loose ends?
We really can't tell without more information.
Can you add additional information, such as the circumstances around your divorce?
2006-11-26 01:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your position is sure one of the hardest place to stand on, heading for the future but a huge apart of you is not moving with you... there is no solution as of now, because before remarrying you should have assured yourself how you really felt way back then, life would be more complicated for you and your new partner if children matters are involve... you are pretty confuse right now, i'm sure you wanted to tell and open up to your husband to confess and ask for his forgiveness, but you got to think of this matter for more than a million, no make it a billion times before making a move, one wrong move and your future would sure be vanish forever... how sure are you that you still felt something for your husband? .... Whew..! think girl friend one small mistake and games over...
2006-11-26 01:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been divorced for a few years and still have my ex wife wanting to rekindle things even though I have never shown her any interest in doing so.
I am a full-time single parent to our child so I still have to maintain contact but I can do without her showing up at my house in revealing tops, dropping over unannounced when guests are over at my home or asking me straight out to stay with me for a few days etc.
All I can say is it revolts me.
2006-11-26 02:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r comparing him with ur present husband all the time. Just ignore him and stop comparisons. Probably the pleasures of life that he gave u were memorable and u r missing them in the present husband.
2006-11-26 01:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
and you may always have a special love for your ex. just go back in time...let your mind wonder and think of the reasons why he became an ex husband ,he is an ex for some reason.
2006-11-26 01:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you were thinking about when you divorced? If you divorce you not only brake your own life but the life of your husband. Why are you so egoistic?
2006-11-26 01:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
U need to start love some one and have to have fullest satisfcation in Bed with him for atleast four or five times. Then you may forget him.
2006-11-26 01:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by Frenchkiss 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's gone out of your life by now so stop looking back and start looking forward.
2006-11-26 01:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will ever replace your first love.
2006-11-26 03:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋