For married ladies? How many of you have been slapped on your face by your husband during an argument?

Question

what did you do after that?

Answer 1

I've been more than slapped by my EX husband. Notice how he is now my ex? I made sure after he laid his hands upon me that he felt like the low life he was by spitting in his face and the last thing he saw before being in court was the back of my head as I walked out that door. There is no excuse for any physical abuse...which includes slapping. Did you know that with enough force a simple slap in the face could permanently disfigure your face? With enough force or hit at the right angle with an open hand it can knock a tooth or two out of your mouth? If you have been hit by your partner, leave, it will not get better ever no matter how much you'd like to believe if you are an offender who has hit someone you are involved with, seek help and learn to practice anger management. If you ranger is out of control or beyond your control, then do the one you are with a favor and leave. No one should have to tolerate any kind of physical retaliation female or male. Although it can vary from case to case, and doesn't take into account other forms of domestic abuse, here is a condensed version fo the cycle of abuse, please remember that not all of these signs are always present in every case:
Build-Up Phase - The tension builds.

Stand-Over Phase - Verbal attacks increase.

Explosion Phase - A violent outburst occurs.

Remorse Phase - You shouldn't have pushed me, it was your fault!

Pursuit Phase - It will never happen again, I promise.

Honeymoon Phase - See, we don't have any problems!

Answer 2

I haven't ever been slapped by my husband or anyone else....if anyone raised a hand to slap me..the only thing they would see is the back of me walking out the door.....It is never right to raise a hand to another no matter what the argument is or how heated it becomes....remember...it will just be easier to do it the next time if you let him get away with it....protect yourself...good luck

Answer 3

I am divorced now BUT.......when I was married, he never "slapped" me but did shove and push me. If ANY man ever slaps me, they sure better get a good one in as they will NEVER EVER see me again. I will tolerate a lot of stuff, but slapping or hitting, nope. I will be history and for good!! That is physical abuse and I don't go for that at all. When my x picked me up and threw me, that was the end of the line with me. As soon as he walked out the door that day to go to work, I left to and headed for tall country to get out of there with no return. I did go back with the police to get my stuff. That marriage lasted 17 years, this happened about 10 years ago.

Answer 4

My husband of 37 years slapped me once, and that was 36 years ago. when he did it I was shocked and I think he was too, I left him telling him I would never allow a guy to treat me that way. We stayed apart for two months, each day he would call telling me how very sorry he was and that it would never happen again, I gave him one chance to proove it, that chance has lasted 36 more years, He's a good husband, father and a great provider, and has never raised his hand to me again, and there has been plenty of arguments, some real beauties..

Answer 5

NEVER, ever, ever!!! First, he knows that it would be over. A mature, adult relationship has no room for physical violence. The two must respect each other and trust each other in every aspect, including the physical. Second, I would probably retaliate -- then ask him to get out. I'm with Dodgerchick in saying that he'd be calling his mother from jail, but his mother wouldn't bail him out for that! I was there, once, in my life. I put up with physical violence, as he was the father of my child. I had limited my options, but finally got out. Current hubby knows this, and would never, EVER step over that line. Also, his family would come down on him hard!!! He was raised to be respectful of women. A REAL gentleman knows never to hit a woman -- no matter WHAT the situation is.

Answer 6

Wow! That is terrible! Well I was not married at the time it was an X fiancé. He just hauled off and smacked me , hard too! It was so awful! I did not even know what to say, I was dumbfounded! Well needless to say things went bad after that, i could never forgive him for it. He used alcohol as an excuse,pathetic. Worse thing of it all was that his mother was near by when he did it, and said that maybe I did something to deserve it! Unbelievable, well the wedding was off!

Answer 7

Im assuming either you are a male and slapped ur wife..or you just got slapped by your husband. If you are the male shame on you and if you are the wife LEAVE HIM..IT WILL GET WORSE FROM HERE EVEN IF HE TELLS YOU IT WONT!

Answer 8

I don't recall ever being slapped in the face by my husband but he did shove me down a couple times.


my mom slapped my face a few times when I was a teenager. :)

Answer 9

haven't been slap ever because he respect me and our family... No matter how big or huge the arguments could have been he should never lay a finger on you... its away of showing how much he loves both you and your family by respecting the thing you had to say and do, arguments should never end in the sense of hurting each other... hurting your partner is one way of showing you don't respect her and your family... if he had hurt you once and you have welcome its pain and understand him, expect for the next and continuously physical hurt and pain you'll receive from him

Answer 10

If my husband slapped me we would not be married anymore and he would not get a second chance.