I have Not got an attitude at all. This woman was nasty and ignorant towards me so how am I the one with the problem? Im I missing something???? As 4 size 8 (UK) being painfully thin is absoulte RUBBISH!lol Im of 'Decent' height and have curves. No problems with me at all
2006-11-26 01:27:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Im not joking but this has to be said the jealousy is unbelievable. what normal people have to listen to. we are told nonsense so we feel bad about ourselves nothing else!
2006-11-26 01:31:13 · update #1
Go for it Gal, luv girl fights......
2006-11-26 01:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by galaxy_glider 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like you, full of such piety and Christian CHARITY.
You deny that you ‘have an attitude,’ yet fail to take in what others are trying to convey to you, and instead, behave ‘defensively.’
I really cannot see how another person can behave ‘ignorantly towards you’! Unless she was ‘ignoring your beauty.’
You stated at the beginning that she was 'Ugly,' and I think, 'Fat.' So, what does those two references have to do with anything! If she were disabled, say, then would you make that a reference point in here too?
Remember. You went to church for A Reason. Now Try to remember what the reason was, and then summon up what Christianity is about and act upon it.
I wish you the best of the Luck you can cobble together.
Sash.
2006-11-26 12:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Honey,
Yes, you are missing something and a whole lot of people here are trying to convey, in many, different ways, that the smell of a "better than thou" attitude has come wafting in. It's like the smell of a bad odor (the toast is burning). When enough people say "the toast is burning", you may want to take a little time to check the size 8 toaster.
It is not wise to say, "no problems with me at all". Sometimes we see the "mote" in our brothers eye and miss the "beam" in our own. By the way, to assume "everyone" is jealous of you is prideful in itself. What would cause you to think we'd all like to be you?
Hooray for your size 8, decent height and curves! You are to be applauded. I'm sure you are very, very cute but I hope your next visit to church will cause you to humble yourself just a very little bit.
2006-11-26 09:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're absolutely beautiful, yet thin, I can see why some old lady may be expressing concerns about your body condition. just ignore the whole deal and keep your good attitude as you said. Good enough, no?
2006-11-26 11:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be sounding rude, but she might not have been jealous, just might. She may have a wonderful husband, healthy intelligent children, a brilliant job and one hell of a sex life. Why would she be jealous because she's not thin? Perhaps she was giving you dirty looks in reply to the looks you were giving her?
2006-11-26 12:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by floppity 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a good person and I have a better idea. Take it to god only remember god and his angels spend most of the time with the people who suffer so he is seldom in churches. Get it.
2006-11-26 10:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were rude in your last question. You never indicated that she was nasty or ignorant. You simply stated that you were in church and a fat women sat beside you. Your last question was pathetic, especially since you were in church, yet here you are insulting someone...very hypocritical. This women's size has nothing to do with her perceived bad attitude.
2006-11-26 09:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
But you obvioulsy ARE full of yourself. The fact that you've had to come back on here to respond to the answers on your original question proves it.
Lets just say this fat woman WAS jealous of you. Why come on here to tell people?
I don't like the way YOU look at ME. Is it because I'm more intelligent?
2006-11-26 09:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by Billy 2 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Oh darling was she jealous of you,,ent that horrible when that happens it makes you want to lock yourself away until the public can appreciate you...lololololololol.....i think you have a slight attitude problem,,pray for forgiveness.
2006-11-26 09:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by kimble 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're missing the point ...you where in church ...and that's not a very Christian attitude to take about another person is it????No matter what her problem is.....let me put it another way..if someone has a problem with you it's their problem right??Forgive and forget:)
2006-11-26 09:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by mr nice 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Stop trying to convince people your not full of yourself by talking about yourself. You say there are no problems with you at all.....I think others might disagree.
2006-11-26 09:52:05 · answer #11 · answered by ruthie a 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋