I am 17, and I have just finished high school. I have known this girl for about a year and a half and have liked her for that long too. I felt like she liked me too but was too chicken to ask how she felt. She kind of rejected me once and she told me she didn't like me the same. I was kinda bummed, actually I was really upset. But after that her friends saw that I was upset and said they had been talking to her and she DOES really like me, it's just she doesn't want to mess things up. (This was atleast 7 months ago btw). Since then I haven't been hanging around her or talking to her as much, even though I really want to and when I do see her I get all nervous and my heart starts beating fast. I mean, I seriously can't get over her. I can't stop thinking about her, I am going crazy. I still feel she likes me, a bit more than a friend at least. Now that school is over, I don't see her, I don't talk to her. I don't know what to do. I am too scared to do anything. I'm losing it...
2006-11-26 01:21:07 · 7 answers · asked by melonthrow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone at one point or another goes through what your going through......I feel your pain...your not loosing it....your just thinking about it too much....the whole situation....spending too much time thinking about on what could have been will only make it worse....try and find ways to get busy...plan some fun things for yourself...start making a effort to go out with your friends...maybe once you have made a few plans and start betting busy....you'll be less likely to think of her so often, and that will ease the pain you are in...
Who knows... you may end up finding a knew friend.....that's the best medicine for you right now....I know you don't feel like doing any thing else....but you have too...just to try and move on from the state your in...
Good Luck to you....hope it gets better for you soon!!!
2006-11-26 01:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things settle down and than look at this from a different angle. Ask her if you and her can still remain freinds. Friends make the best lovers. I am married to my high school sweetheat but we started off as friends from grade school. So my advice is take it slow and work on being friends and see where that leads. Good luck
2006-11-26 09:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by patti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are under depression because of this issue..the only way to come out of this is to shift the focus from this issue for some time.For this you need to take support from your friends..hang out with them for some time ,engage yourself in thing which gives you happiness...Let the memories of her come and go ...after sometimes...the intensity of the pain will reduce to a level that you can take a decision independently.Get over this GRIEVING period gracefully...It will give you the wisdom to realise facts and come to a judgement
2006-11-26 09:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by capricornian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called puppy love dude! eventually you'll learn how to handle these situations with women....as for this situation, use it as a learning experience: try talking to her again and take note of how it all goes down!
2006-11-26 09:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by johnavaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing why would you stop talking to her and stuff. she proubly forgot all about you and moved on with her life. so maybe you should move on with your life the same. everyone makes mistakes but sometimes you just can't fix them and stuff. maybe you should go talk to her as friends .
2006-11-26 09:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax.
2006-11-26 09:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Juddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it big tyme
2006-11-26 09:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by TiGa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋