I'm bisexual and my wife knows everthing about me. But this co-worker that I have always want to know every detail of my extramarital activities. Every time I try to approach him he says that he is married and would never cheat on his wife, but he want to spent a night with me with the condition of he beign tottally drunk...
2006-11-26 01:12:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe the technical term here is bi curious.
THis is no bad thing, coz really, "not to try, is not to know"
So then, "have" him, and then he'll know if he's gay!
I feel a bit sorry for his wife though.
Well hey, see you if can't arrange a foursome!
2006-11-26 01:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ontol 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I salute your for telling the truth and truly admire your wife for accepting you for who you are. Spend the night drinking with your officemate till you both get drunk? I smell a set up. And how nosy can he be? I don't think its his business to know your extramarital affairs. I suggest you just ignore his questions. Next time he invites you somewhere or offer you a ride, just say no. I think he will keep on persisting until he gets what he wants. And if he is gay or not? I say he is just one annoying guy who does not deserve to be noticed.
2006-11-26 09:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to tell if he is gay from that alone. But, what you do know is that he likes you and that is really nice. If he does not interest you let him struggle through the details of making it happen. If he does interest you, tell him you got the booze if he has the room.
Word of warning - you could lose your job as a result of such an affair, it better be worth it.
2006-11-26 09:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by johnatplayct 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's curious and a SOB. Being drunk is not a loop hole in monogamy. What a shame his wife doesn't have a "heads up" about this.
Whatever deal you have with your wife is your business, but this dude is just sneaking around, drunk or not, and a SOB
2006-11-26 09:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ax Me Anything 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be gay, but bi-curious is more likely. He probably wants to be drunk so that he can claim it wasn't his fault and that he didn't really cheat on his wife. A sort of loophole, if you will.
2006-11-26 09:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be bicurious -- he may be straight and just fascinated -- he may be gay and closeted -- he may be bi. The only way to find out is to talk back to him and have the night that he wants I suppose.
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2006-11-26 09:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby have you ever seen brokeback mountain???that might not be the road you want to travel but what happens if you fall in love??the guy will have to become an alcoholic..but in any case good luck sweetie
2006-11-26 10:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess in this case the saying is true str8 guy's are a 12 pack away from being gay
2006-11-26 09:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is curious, but be careful. Guys have been humiliated over and over again.
2006-11-26 10:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he could be curious
2006-11-26 10:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋